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We know Ayra is described being very ugly in the books, ned use to sympathetically say she was pretty just so could feel better for a bit.. but reality was always harsh for her, since jeyne use to remind her of something she lacked compared to her sister, who she was jealous of because of Sansa's looks and grace which Arya doesn't have



“Hodor!” Sansa yelled. “You ought to marry Hodor, you’re just like him, stupid and hairy and ugly!”



''Jeyne used to call her Arya Horseface, and neigh whenever she came near.''



''She had never cared if she was pretty, even when she was stupid Arya Stark. Only her father had ever called her that. Him, and Jon Snow, sometimes. Her mother used to say she could be pretty if she would just wash and brush her hair and take more care with her dress, the way her sister did. To her sister and sister’s friends and all the rest, she had just been Arya Horseface.''



Don't understand why she holds it against her sister for being pretty, Arya was always harsh on Sansa, Sansa always felt rejected by her.. so instead she should be getting as much sympathy as Arya, it's not her fault for being pretty and drawing every man's eyes.. I do feel bad for Arya since she still can't let go of this, just like Catelyn was still a bitch towards Jon after he left for wall.. mother and daughter are similar in that sense, but you can't help pity them in a way


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We know Ayra is described being very ugly in the books, ned use to sympathetically say she was pretty just so could feel better for a bit.. but reality was always harsh for her, since jeyne use to remind her of something she lacked compared to her sister, who she was jealous of because of Sansa's looks and grace which Arya doesn't have

“Hodor!” Sansa yelled. “You ought to marry Hodor, you’re just like him, stupid and hairy and ugly!”

''Jeyne used to call her Arya Horseface, and neigh whenever she came near.''

''She had never cared if she was pretty, even when she was stupid Arya Stark. Only her father had ever called her that. Him, and Jon Snow, sometimes. Her mother used to say she could be pretty if she would just wash and brush her hair and take more care with her dress, the way her sister did. To her sister and sister’s friends and all the rest, she had just been Arya Horseface.''

Don't understand why she holds it against her sister for being pretty, Arya was always harsh on Sansa, Sansa always felt rejected by her.. so instead she should be getting as much sympathy as Arya, it's not her fault for being pretty and drawing every man's eyes.. I do feel bad for Arya since she still can't let go of this, just like Catelyn was still a bitch towards Jon after he left for wall.. mother and daughter are similar in that sense, but you can't help pity them in a way

Sansa took after her mother. The Tullys look normal.

Arya has the Stark look. Primitive, and long of face. She will always be just a little bit ugly but the skill to be able to wear faces will help her.

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We see this in her later chapters that Arya is growing into her beauty. Ned wasn't lying to make her feel better, arya is the spitting image of lyanna.

Don't understand why she holds it against her sister for being pretty, Arya was always harsh on Sansa, Sansa always felt rejected by her.. so instead she should be getting as much sympathy as Arya, it's not her fault for being pretty and drawing every man's eyes.. I do feel bad for Arya since she still can't let go of this, just like Catelyn was still a bitch towards Jon after he left for wall..

We've been reading two very different characters.

And even if it is her destiny so what?

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Yeah, out of everything they are similar in that sense. :rolleyes:



Arya is turning into a beautiful woman, as hinted in the books. Lyanna herself was a wild beauty, Arya obviously has to live up to a lot.


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Jeyne is the jealous one. She's Sansa's best friend, but not a highborn daughter and she'll never get to marry a lord or a knight. Then comes a second daughter, who might steal her place as Sansa's friend, because she's higher born, higher of status, is expected to marry a lord or a knight regardless of her looks, etc. So, she tries to bully and scare away Arya from Sansa by calling her names.



Nobody else but Jeyne (and Sansa) call her horseface. Nobody else calls her ugly. And yeah, if your sister and her friend you hope to be accepted by and play with call you ugly that is a big deal for a 9-10 year old.



Even professional models struggle with considering themselves as "pretty" until they're often well into their 20s. And you expect a child that was bullied by her sister's best friend, and her sister joining in to get over it quicker than basically the majority of women overall (who weren't all bullied)?


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She's not ugly.

Lyanna was considered beautiful, and Arya is said to look strikingly similar.

Jeyne and Sansa just enjoy taunting Arya, their opinion is meaningless. Catelyn likely said as much to encourage Arya to care for her appearance.

In any case, how many nine year olds have grown into their features? Many, many, children become attractive only when they hit a certain age.

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Jeyne is the jealous one. She's Sansa's best friend, but not a highborn daughter and she'll never get to marry a lord or a knight. Then comes a second daughter, who might steal her place as Sansa's friend, because she's higher born, higher of status, is expected to marry a lord or a knight regardless of her looks, etc. So, she tries to bully and scare away Arya from Sansa by calling her names.

Nobody else but Jeyne (and Sansa) call her horseface. Nobody else calls her ugly.

her own mother never held her in a high regard.. it was always sansa who was the pretty one not that she gave 2 ceny about what happens to her while she went mad looking for trails for arya in adwd.. not even robb called her pretty or any of the people she met.. whereas jeyne was always called pretty and sansa beats cersei in tems of beauty

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Ned and the Kindly Man both call Arya pretty. Doesn't Arya also begin to be noticed my men and get catcalls?

If anything Arya is plain when compared to Sansa. But not compared to Sansa, I'd say she's a northern beauty, like Lyanna.

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I don't understand what's with some people and their obsession with Arya's looks. The girl is clearly turning out to be stunning, what's the use of being in denial. Her popularity is not based on the way she looks anyways. :rolleyes:


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i'm saying whats in the text.. i also said i pity her

Your not saying what's in the text though. Your repeating the opinions of biased people from the text including Arya.

The people in Braavos are probably the first unbiased opinions she's ever gotten about her actual looks.

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