childofsummer, on 06 March 2012 - 11:58 PM, said:
But in Westeros, one of the primary duties of a husband to his wife is protection. We see this from Catelyn, when she thinks about her mother telling her not to worry about having to fight. We also see it from Tyrion when he thinks of cloaking Sansa with his protection (regardless of how little she wanted it). I don't see the foreshadowing of Sandor as Sansa's protector as excluding the possibility of a romance between them. On the contrary, the deliberate foreshadowing when Sansa twice(!) wraps herself in Sandor's cloak indicates that they will have a marital, or something like a marital, relationship in the future.
And about Sandor's knightly skills... they were very much in evidence at the tourney, during the riot when he saved Sansa from a bloodthirsty, raging mob ...on foot... that killed two mounted, armed KG knights. I don't think he failed as a "knight" when he refused to go out a third time into the fiery battle, bloody, injured, and exhausted, while Moore was still fresh as a daisy.
Finally, IMO it was the MOST knightly thing Sandor could have done to accept that Sansa was not ready to go with him that night, and quietly leave. Sure, he acted like a jerk about the song, but when it counted, he didn't rape her or kidnap her. He left. [coming off my soapbox... no rant intended, Lyanna, just feel strongly about the textual clues

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I think we will see him again once he finishes his QI rehab, and I look forward to seeing how his arc (and Sansa's) plays out.
Oh hai, this one got drowned in the deluge of posts, but I did find it!!
What I mean with Sandor "failing as a knight" is that he wished he could be a proper knight and help the maiden in distress etc etc but due to his station as Joffrey's sworn shield and in Lannister employ, he can't. In that regard, he is almost in the same position as Jamie Lannister was with mad king Aerys and Queen Rhaella. Deathbed Sandor admits as much: he stood there in his white cloak and let them beat Sansa. He also mentions that he wanted to take her away. In his mind, HE has failed as a knight and he has failed Sansa.
Despite, as we know, doing more for her than almost anyone, apart from maybe Tyrion and he respects her wishes after the Battle of the Blackwater too. In his mind, he seems to have failed, although in reality, he did what he could (and even offered what he couldn't really pull through: he offered Sansa a way out of KL since he thought it was the right thing to do.)
I don't know if it's right to get hung up on him as knightly though, but more as "honourable". Since we see that this was a characteristic valued in Ned Stark (and in the north), but all but forgotten in the mire of Kings Landing. (So I more or less agree with you here, I just failed at being clear.

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Anyways, regarding the QI, I reread the Brienne/Jamie chapters during the weekend and not only does it seem clear that Sandor is the Gravedigger, but I was fairly certain he was nearby when they are talking about Brienne's quest, which means
Sandor knows Sansa and Arya have not been found and people are still looking.
I'm also almost certain that what he needs to do is drop his rage and his wish to destroy Gregor, but I just cannot see him becoming some religous nutjob a la Lancel. It would destroy his character completely. It's more likely that he is resting, healing, biding his time and contemplating what to do next. There's also the added complication of him being blamed for the massacre at Saltpans, so he can't show his face anywhere near Randyll Tarly or the Freys and I think he knows that.
Another interesting thing is that Sandor Clegane is not a stupid man. He had an amazing knowledge of all the Stark siblings and relations. He knew about Lysa Tully, about her little sickly son Robert, he knew that Sansa and Arya were related to the Tullys and he knew the general layout of that house too. He also analyses Joffrey succintly already in AGOT and twice does he lie to save Sansa without batting an eyelid. When he travels with Arya, he also makes some pretty accurate comments about how nobody sees the smallfolk/farmers so he obviously has reflected on this at some point. Most of the time he comes across as just rough and uncouth. He's pretty often drunk and he seems to be suffering from a bit of the omg pretty girl silliness around Sansa. However, despite this, he manages to know a fair bit and make some really accurate judgements. I doubt Gregor would care that Lysa had a sickly son, or that nobody cares about the smallfolk, he would just be like "rape, smash, grab, mutilate".
The way Sandor has been placed and the context (Brienne's quest) suggest that his future plot involvement will be centred on Sansa, UnCat or Arya in some way. While the brothers on the QI are of the faith, they don't really seem to be anywhere near aligned with the Faith Militant, or what goes on in KL. A lot of them seems to have been soldiers or similar before, and they've given that up for a quiet life. Not likely they will be volunteering their own for some fanatic fighting. It's also likely that while Sandor may heal, he also may not be able to fully get back into full swing the way he was, in the same way that Jamie is maimed.
Further, if Sandor needs a purpose in life other than killing Gregorstein (bleah), it seems most likely with his history with Sansa and Arya that he could find protecing/serving them a worthwhile thing to do. It's also interesting that the Elder Brother waxes on how he served, but never found anything good in it and then takes out the big hammer and adds that he never loved anyone and nobody ever loved him (at which point I disagree with the EB: He SO had a thing for Sansa). But anyway, the things listed, that he served without joy, drank to find peace but never found it and totally lacked for love just seems to indicate that he needs those things, or a purpose where he can find those things.
Also, reading Jamie's chapters, he compares Brienne to Sandor more than once, which is a bit amusing as the Sansa/Sandor, Brienne/Jamie can be seen as typical Beauty and the Beast storylines (altho Jamie sort of fails at his role

I love AFfC Jamie tho, I can't help it.), and also because it doesn't always seem to be 100% negative, but to denote that she is strong, brave and capable in dangerous situations.
Edited by Lyanna Stark, 19 March 2012 - 04:49 AM.