white-raven, on Aug 26 2009, 23.54, said:
Hi everyone. I'm really new to here, but there's a good chance you know my significant other - Ser Michael John Snow. After missing Worldcon, We are planning to make the trip up to ValleyCon. He's really excited to hopefully see GRRM up close. Anyone been before? This will be my first con.
I hope you have a wonderful time at your very first SF con. There's a lot to like about smaller regional conventions. One bonus is that the GoHs usually have more time to actually enjoy the con and get to meet more people on a casual basis than at a big con which has more programming, meetings, business lunches and promotion events.
Usually a small con will have the 'big' GoH events on Saturday or Sunday, and I expect George will do a reading as well as other panels. Check the con's website closer to the con dates to see if they put up programing information. I always rec going on a Saturday to a con if you can only attend one day, that's often the day when the best events are presented.
George will be looking for friendly faces, especially those who know where he can get a good meal, or who will enjoy hanging out in the hotel lobby bar for hours, while people come and go.
The lines for autographing sessions will be much shorter. You'll be able to find your friends, the ones you know, and the ones you meet during the con with ease. You know that really great but weird/silly/sexy outfit you don't have enough nerve to wear in your mundane life? Pack it and wear it with delight during the convention.
I've never been to this specific con, but usually there's a small range of dealers in the hucksters' room, you should be able to find some nifty books/t-shirts/art prints for yourself or as gifts for friends. Since George is a GoH there should be at least one canny book dealer who brings a lot of George's titles to sell, if you want to expand your GRRM collection or get a copy of A Game of Thrones for George to sign as a gift for a friend. So shake that piggy bank and bring a few bucks to spend, if you can.
So go and enjoy yourself. Don't be shy, introduce yourself to strangers, laugh out loud at silliness, paint yourself up as a Klingon or zombie alien clown from the planet Zarnu, ask that question in a panel, and don't forget to volunteer for an hour or two to help out the con. It's a great way to meet people, and since most SF cons are run on volunteer work, you'll be helping to make the convention fun for everyone. When I was a new fan, I often worked registration. People are almost always in a good mood when they get to a convention, and are eager to get their badge and program book. You've got a built in excuse for asking their name, and if you have a friendly attitude and a smile, you'll make an impression on even the most world-weary folks who have seen everything at cons, and later that day in the bar or the hospitality suite, it can lead to talking to people that you never thought would ever notice you. (That's how I met Robert Silverberg and Chip Delany, and made casual conversations easier with many folks over the years).
Hope you have a grand time, and don't forget the con reports!
This post has been edited by Parris: 27 August 2009 - 02:38 PM