Loras, on 25 April 2011 - 07:59 AM, said:
That's a departure from my original point, but I think it's important none the less. Anyway, so Dany decides to take control over her sex life with a man that she sees as a dangerous savage. Doreah adds at the end of the scene where she is teaching Dany the Lyseni version of the Kama Sutraby saying "if he wanted the Dothraki way, he wouldn't have married her". While Doreah did not understand the real reason for the marriage, certainly gold from Illyrio, this line was presented in a way that made it seem like Dany was chosen by Drogo - rather than the fact that he would have married whoever had the largest dowry!
Where did you get that from?
The TV series hasn't made any reference of Drogo being lured by any dowry. They present it as a possible deal. Droge gets the bride, Viserys get military support for his claim. The khal comes to see his potential bride-to be, and he's happy with what he sees. Deal done.
I particularly like Belafon's interpretation:
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I think, had Dany not been able to hold his eye upon that first meeting (looking down, acting cowed and frightened) the Khal may not have agree to marrying her. Just my opinion. I think the Khal knew he'd need a girl with the right kind of spirit.
The books make no comment of any dowry either. Neither Viserys mentions gold or jewels or any other valuables when he's bitching about the delay in getting his army. He sticks with the "he gets Dany, I get my crown". Even when he tries to force the issue in Vaes Dothrak, he only mentions Dany and the eggs, which were a bridal gift not a part of a paid price.
The only dowry I can think of is some potential promise from Viserys of a handsome reward to Drogo once he's set on the Iron Throne, and we don't even have any indication from the books that is the case.
Certainly, Illyrio didn't provide any dowry. All the opposite:
"Dany had heard tales of such eggs, but she had never seen one, nor thought to see one. It was a truly magnificent gift, though she know Illyrio could afford to be lavish. He had collected a fortune in horses and slaves for his part in selling her to Khal Drogo" (AGOT, Daenerys 2, Harper Voyager paperback, pp. 104)
I think the idea of marrying the last survivor of an exotic, prestigious, powerful and slightly mythic race was the driving force behind Drogo's decision. He'd have a woman by his side such as no other khal had in the past, no other khal could ever have in the future.