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I appreciate The Ned - the second greatest of the Starks, the frozen faced fool, unyielding as ice, but that's what I love about him. He had a set of morals that he wouldn't betray for anyone no matter what the price. Even after five books his presence is still felt throughout the land. Oh and I hate Lady Dustin purely for wanting to desecrate The Ned's sacred bones. I hope he's laid to rest safely in the end and wolves eat Lady Dustin and her dogs.
Actually she has a legitimate grievance against him. Ned loved lyanna and wanted her bones to rest in winterfell, in her family crypt. The same is true for his companions and their relatives. Failing to return Lord Dustin's bones while making sure to do so for lyanna was really thoughtless of him. Why ned did this is never explained, he may have had a decent reason for it, but from lady dustin's perspective it was incredibly rude and heartless. Returning lord's dustin's bones would have been no trouble to him, but instead burying him in dorne, thousands of miles from his family crypt would be seen as disrespectful toward a loyal bannerman.
But whatever, sorry for failing to
appreciate ned and his sacred bones. (what is he jesus now, that his decomposing corpse is sacred?)
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Tournaments weren't limited to just jousting. There's really nothing absurd about it.
No it is absurd. What "a man" does in a joust has nothing to do with what he'll do in a battle. That is what was shown in both the bronn-stokeworth fight and the belwas-meereenese guy fight. No warrior is going to do what they do in a tourney in a real battle, the first thing you'd do is use your lance to stab the other guys horse (in a tournament that gets you disqualified). What's equally absurd is giving this idiotic machismo-laden line to Ned, who it doesn't fit at all. Ned was a thoughtful guy who didn't brag about "fighting for real" he almost never mentioned combat. Ned's dislike of tournaments was related to its expenses, and its frivolity, not any stupid "when I fight a man for real" reason. Ned practices swords with other men, plenty of times.
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Ned: I don't fight in tournaments
Jaime: Why not, getting to old for it?
Ned: I don't fight in tournaments, because as someone who has seen the horrors of war, I find playing at war to be distasteful. I spend my time actually working on governing my lands, not knocking men off horses with a stick. Maybe when your older, you'll understand that.
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No it doesn't. It was one small aspect of his character, every other aspect that makes him who he is was still there.
Whatever, its opinion. I thought a pretty big aspect of Ned was that he wasn't a superficially impressive person. He was an average looking guy who was somewhat shy and not particularly charismatic or a notable fighter. He didn't inspire loyalty in the way jaime or robert did (by being famed warriors), but by being just dutiful and decent. A key aspect of him was that catelyn was initially disappointed in him because he was a smaller plainer less socially commanding version of Brandon, but that once she got to know him she found out he had a good heart (in perhaps a way brandon didn't) and appreciated that. Instead in the TV show you have LF say how Ned is even more manly than Brandon. I thought it was a fairly major change, and turned Ned into a swaggering warrior (barristan telling him how many men he killed was lame).
Edited by AverageCheese, 22 November 2011 - 11:29 PM.