I quite enjoyed Geoff Rymans Lust, which is squarely about a gay man's sex/love life, but I don't think was A Novel About A Gay Person. The main character sexuality was vastly important in his life, both as a personal quality and as being a member of a community, but it wasn't his single defining trait or something.
And a character I would like to here some thoughts on is Ruby from the last Cherie Priest novel. Done well or just thrown in?
Ah. Ruby. I've been wanting to talk about that.