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Tangential discussion: Did Sansa 'betray' Ned?


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#61 Xray the Enforcer

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 08:35 PM

View PostLord Ben, on 15 April 2012 - 08:24 PM, said:

Are there rules somewhere I can read?   I only see things about going after other posters and etiquette that way.  I'd like to know what the guidelines are there and where predicting a storyline becomes a "whiff" of advocating for abuse so I can avoid a ban for having a forbidden prediction.

Not all of the rules are explicitly written down -- admin's choice. Those that are written down can be found in the links at the bottom of my sig. It's up to the mods to read threads, decide what is out of bounds (or on the cusp) based on our collective understanding on how Ran wants the board modded, and then make decisions on what to moderate, what to warn against, etc. When in doubt, we report the posts in question and have a discussion amongst ourselves over what (if any) action should be taken.

In general, talking about other boarders and criticizing them personally is not accepted. Discuss the merits of their arguments, sure. One can even point out if something they have said is beyond the pale. But no name-calling (I have already deleted posts in this thread that did this).

The warning against abuse advocacy means that I don't want to read anyone saying that Sansa deserves to be beaten or raped. (Rape advocacy -- for all characters and RL persons -- is strictly off-limits on this board and anyone doing it can be [and has been] permanently booted from the site.)

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 08:40 PM

View PostFire&Blood, on 15 April 2012 - 07:38 PM, said:

Glad you picked up on that, because Arya managed to escape and survive. Arya has always done whatever she needed to do to survive, Sansa, on the other hand, has always relied on others to help her.
Sansa has always done whatever she can to survive, whether that involves relying on other people or not. Sansa, like Arya, is a remarkably damaged little girl, who has endured harship and abuse almost beyond belief and has managed to maintained a semblence of decency and compassion.

When one is in jeopardy, I wonder how much depending on others vs. oneself matters-- I'd wager not a bit.

The comparison of the two is interesting. You praise Arya for doing what she must to survive, but appear to look askance at Sansa for doing... well, exactly the same thing. The fact is that the two girls are in very different situations, and Sansa's survival is going to involve very different things than Arya's. As much as I love Arya, the fact is that if she were in Sansa's situation, chances are she'd be long dead. Spitting in Joffrey's face or throwing a punch at him may have been great fun to watch, but it also may well have been deadly.

Sansa and Arya are actually remarkably alike. They are both essientially survivors, both brave, both possessing innate compassion and decency, both stubborn in their own ways. The one enormous difference is that Arya is active while Sansa is more passive. Arya is more of a tomboy whilst Sansa is more interested in conventionally feminine pursuits.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 08:53 PM

View PostQueen Cersei I, on 15 April 2012 - 08:40 PM, said:

The comparison of the two is interesting. You praise Arya for doing what she must to survive, but appear to look askance at Sansa for doing... well, exactly the same thing.

We have access to their POV from the books.  During AGoT Sansa is full of thoughts about herself and her beloved Joeffery and Arya for Jon and her family and the butchers boy Mycah.   Sansa is written to be a snobbish princess with concerns for knights and jousting and not a lot for butchers boys.   It's natural for some people to not like her all that much as a "person" while still enjoying the character.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 08:55 PM

View PostXray the Enforcer, on 15 April 2012 - 08:35 PM, said:

The warning against abuse advocacy means that I don't want to read anyone saying that Sansa deserves to be beaten or raped. (Rape advocacy -- for all characters and RL persons -- is strictly off-limits on this board and anyone doing it can be [and has been] permanently booted from the site.)

Thanks, that's more clear.   I was just concerned that if I said Sansa would probably have a forced marriage at LF's behest or someething I'd get banned.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:03 PM

Last time I checked both Arya and Sansa are alive so those who say Arya is better are imo wrong. My favorite character is Arya, I love her, but that doesn't make her better than Sansa, even when she went behind Ned's back to Cersei which was stupid. Obviously Sansa wouldn't survive Arya's story arc because, obviously, Arya's story arc is meant for Arya alone, there's no point to put Sansa there. The whole point of Sansa's story arcs vs Arya's story arc is to put in comparison both characters, they're a kind of foil characters.
Someone in the other thread, the one that this one was transferred from, mentioned that Sansa should have learnt sword fighting and such, that's honestly ridiculous. That person, I don't remember who, used the Bear women, Sand Snakes and Brienne as an example, well let's look at it this way:
Bear Women are all women fighters because that's what they need to survive all the raids they are subject to
Sand Snakes they're all taught by Oberyn to fight to defend themselves, however he's the only, legitimately the only father who asks that of his girls other than Bear Island residents, and he does this because Elia was destroyed by Gregor so he is a bit paranoid.
Brienne, come on, she's a hugeee anomaly and it's reminded to us in every Brienne chapter
If we look at the grand scheme of things women don't need nor should they learn how to fight in Westeros. Dany can't fight, same with Cersei, Cat, QoT, Maergaery, Arianne and so on.
Dany conquered Mereen without lifting a sword,
sure Cersei and Cat were defeated but swords wouldn't have helped them.
QoT, Maerg and Arianne are all fine and plotting without swords.
In war women don't need swords because they never get killed, except for Elia due to obvious reasons, women are always respected. High born ladies never get raped or anything. Asha treated her captives well and she was kept well when she was a captive. Generally it is more important for women to arm themselves with wits rather than swords, it's almost impossible for a woman to stand her ground against a full grown man in a sword fight. They live in Westeros, in a place north of the wall I agree it would be understandable to learn to fight but it is not necessary to learn how to fight and it will never be.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:03 PM

View PostLord Ben, on 15 April 2012 - 08:55 PM, said:

Thanks, that's more clear.   I was just concerned that if I said Sansa would probably have a forced marriage at LF's behest or someething I'd get banned.

No problem. And no, you wouldn't get banned for something like that. :)

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:09 PM

Sansa disobeyed her dad's inexplicable order in an attempt to stop everything she wanted being taken from her.  Yes, it had some awful consequences, but it's insane to expect her to have worked them out.  Anyone who holds it against her must have the empathy of a rock.  Any "punishment" she deserved was on the level of getting grounded for a week, not seeing her father murdered and getting frequently beaten and humiliated and living in fear for years before being "rescued" by a predatory sexual bastard involved in her father's murder and her insane aunt.  


Far, far worse is her lies to the king in regards the "attack" on Joffrey.  That's a pretty terrible thing to do, but she's still a child who was in a terrifying position there so I don't think it's reasonable to hold it against her too much.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:19 PM

Yes, yes and yes,

I've taken some flack for saying this but my problem with Sansa is the fact that she never tried to exact revenge. She has access to Cersi, Tommen and the princess, yet she does nothing.

If someone chopped off my fathers head, I would kill them, even if it cost my life. I mean she eats dinner with them, and that involves knives and close proximity... She clearly had opportunities that Arya would "kill" for.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:24 PM

View PostWarhammer, on 15 April 2012 - 09:19 PM, said:

Yes, yes and yes,

I've taken some flack for saying this but my problem with Sansa is the fact that she never tried to exact revenge. She has access to Cersi, Tommen and the princess, yet she does nothing.

If someone chopped off my fathers head, I would kill them, even if it cost my life. I mean she eats dinner with them, and that involves knives and close proximity... She clearly had opportunities that Arya would "kill" for.

Sansa is eleven, later twelve, years old and has not been trained in the use of weapons.  If she lunges at Joffrey or Cersei with a knife, she would be restrained and then either thrown into the dungeon or executed.  And why would Sansa want to murder Tommen or Myrcella?  They were guilty only of being fathered by Jaime; and had been nice to Sansa, especially Tommen.  

If I had been in Sansa's place, I would have tried to watch, learn, keep my mouth shut, wait for help or an opportunity to escape, and make plans for revenge only in the future when/if I had access to an army or other practical means of destroying my father's killers.  

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:30 PM

View PostWarhammer, on 15 April 2012 - 09:19 PM, said:

Yes, yes and yes,

I've taken some flack for saying this but my problem with Sansa is the fact that she never tried to exact revenge. She has access to Cersi, Tommen and the princess, yet she does nothing.

If someone chopped off my fathers head, I would kill them, even if it cost my life. I mean she eats dinner with them, and that involves knives and close proximity... She clearly had opportunities that Arya would "kill" for.

Hmm okay, how is she supposed to kill them ? How is she supposed to get even close enough to kill them ? And even if she does without anyone seeing her, who is going to be the first suspect ? Well the girl who's entire family's death the Lannisters are directly or indirectly responsible for. I understand she should get revenge but doing that is borderline retarded, if she really wants to avenge her family she should play the game of thrones and restore the power of house stark.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:53 PM

There are many comments about how Arya wouldn't have survived if she were in Sansa's position.  This is false.  Joffrey doesn't keep Sansa alive just because she chirps what he wants to hear.  He's a psychopath.  Joffrey doesn't kill Sansa because he understands that she has more value as a hostage than a corpse.  He'd understand this if it were Arya they held hostage.  I think it's likely he even understood after the fact how royally he screwed himself by chopping Ned's head off.

Sansa betraying Ned's trust by telling the Queen isn't her norm.  She doesn't habitually betray her family.  She protected Arya by not lying for Joffrey after Arya hit him.  She was in an impossible situation...side with her sister who hit a member of the royal family and risk her sister being severely disciplined on top of publicly shaming a member of the royal family and her betrothed or lie and side with Joffrey making her sister appear as the liar.  This scene really shows Sansa's skills with diplomacy.

Going to Cersei could have been a diplomatic gesture as we know that breaking a betrothal contract is a serious issue.  Ned told Arya that there could be honor in some lies, there could be honor in some gestures of diplomacy as well.  Sansa could not have known that Cersei would in turn betray her.

I sometimes wonder what Bran would have done if he were in KL.  Like Sansa, he is quite taken by tales of gallant knights and he dreams of being a knight of the kingsguard and he has a gentle nature.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 09:56 PM

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There are many comments about how Arya wouldn't have survived if she were in Sansa's position. This is false. Joffrey doesn't keep Sansa alive just because she chirps what he wants to hear. He's a psychopath. Joffrey doesn't kill Sansa because he understands that she has more value as a hostage than a corpse. He'd understand this if it were Arya they held hostage. I think it's likely he even understood after the fact how royally he screwed himself by chopping Ned's head off.



Kinda like Ned? If you push him far enough, he will crack, especially because he's a psychopath, terrible anger management and disregard for consequences combined with kingship would doom her.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:15 PM

I am having keyboard problems, so will present my position more fully later. But meanwhile I'll try to quickly address some of the posits offered:

1) The idea that she'd need to know the extent or particulars re: the consequences of her actions in order for it to qualify.

I say that is false, a strawman.

In order to betray, you only need to know that you are breaking a principle of loyalty; violating a trust. A husband who cheats on his wife is just as guilty of betrayal if he does it in another country, in a way she will never possibly know about and for which there are no consequences other than the betrayal itself. Betrayal is self-defined. It exists as a contrary to a moral imperative or it does not exist at all, and there are merely actions and consequences, and people are only judged on their ability to connect them beforehand.

I would submit that if Ned sides with Renly and they take down the Lannisters to a man, Sansa would be just as guilty of betrayal. It just wouldn't cost as much.

She knew what she was doing was wrong and disloyal, she wanted to do it anyways for (explicitly) selfish reasons, and she did.

To a degree the consequences affect how much we blame her in a broader scope, how much she is the actor in the downfall of her house or whatever, but these are not party to the question of betrayal. I agree that without that context this conversation wouldn't be as charged as it is on both sides, but it would in my opinion still rise or fall on the question itself, not the scope of its repercussions.

For example, Theon did not in any way anticipate the repercussions of his taking Winterfell. Indeed he honestly felt great pain and rage that people he loved were killed when Reek et al unfolded.

But I submit that even if not one person died, or even if the attack was easily rebuffed and only Theon died, he was be exactly as guilty of betraying Robb/Winterfell as he is the way things happened. You don't need to anticipate the scope or particulars that happen as a consequence of your decision to violate a trust to be guilty of violating a trust.

All you need is the knowledge you are (mens reus) and doing it anyway. (actus reus.)

It can be submitted that if you are on the horns of a dilemma between equal but conflicting loyalties (as you can argue Theon was) your action can be seen as less of a betrayal, but in this case Sansa was clearly and expressly thinking only about losing her dream by going back to Winterfell.

2) Framing this within a context of other wrongs done in the book/world.  

Again I say 'beside the point'. The question is not 'is Sansa the most guilty of betrayal, or one of the ___ worst, or more so than ____. It merely asks if the act of going to Cersei, knowing what she knew, in the circumstances she knew it constitutes a betrayal of Ned. No more than that. Attributing lesser or greater responsibility to Ned or whoever is tangential; it would be relevant to another question.

3) Punishment/guilt/age. First allow me to repeat that the 'discussion' about what Sansa 'deserves' is in my opinion weird, sophomoric and again, beside the point. We're not sentencing here. We're merely judging a specific action. And her age, all that I agree should be relevant to that discussion, or the ones I listed above in terms of comparing her betrayal with others. But they don't really apply to whether she knowingly violated a trust or confidence. That's all this question asks.

4) Judging the whole. Addressing the broader question as to whether Sansa is, was, or should be a character of sympathy or contempt. I feel this is sub-textual to many of the answers on both sides, or more, the semantic argument is conceded but then side-stepped to address this question. I think this is a natural offshoot of the question as posed, unlike whether Sansa deserves death or that other crap.

But I still feel we do the discussion a disservice to conflate them too quickly. Sansa in a broader sense is part of a story's arc. GRRM enjoys creating moral values and then pecking away at them with actions/attributes that defy the easy conformity of a label. Jaime, the Hound, Theon,  Stannis, There have been many examples. But I feel in order to address this question it is essential to isolate.

'Is Jaime a murderer' is a separate question from 'did Jaime try to murder Bran.' Now that we know more about him and to a degree have been allowed to sympathize with him a lot more than we did when the Bran action happened, I suspect the first question would be very differently answered by many here than would have been true if asked midway through Book One.

But the answer to the second question should not change a bit.

Actus reus, mens reus. All that's needed.

I would argue that those citing Sansa as guilty because she later did not kill Joff or whatever are confusing these questions. What she does afterwards has no bearing whatever on whether or not she knowingly betrayed Ned's confidence. It is party to an interesting broader question, but not this one.

My keyboard seems to be responding better, but I don't trust it to begin my overall argument (I know, the fact that above is my being concise is comical) so I'll resort to the crudity of somewhat bastardizing my argument from the other thread. I'll try to remove the parts which are direct responses to other posters, but if I miss some please forgive me.

Here is my partial opinion on Sansa's betrayal, specifically addressing what she knew/did not know, and its significance.


She 'knew' there was serious antagonism between her father and the Queen. She 'knew' something had gone seriously wrong as he father was packing them up and leaving pretty quickly, and 'knowing' her father all her life, she'd have to be pretty stupid to not know it would take a lot for him to do that. She 'knew' the Queen was deadly...she had seen so with regards to Arya's hand/Lady. And she knew about the Butcher Boy, and how innocent he actually was.

Unless she was really stupid, and that's not my impression, she certainly 'knew' enough to NOT go over her father's head without even asking what's up and talk to someone she knows is deadly/antagonistic to her father.

I grant you she didn't know exactly what would happen...but we don't get any idea what she did think would, mostly because she seems only concerned with what she doesn't want to happen; separation from Joff/her dream.

Again, the threshold here doesn't need to be all that high. It's not like those of us who see it as a betrayal were expecting something remarkable out of her. NOT going to an enemy of your father's and explaining his plans doesn't seem to be something people have to be specifically told not to do.

Does it?


If 'doing what your father says or even waiting to talk to him' and 'going to his antagonist and discussing his plans' were equally normal/explicable options, then I'd say that her not overtly delineating between 'killing my father' and 'getting what I want' would be significant . But they aren't, and the ONLY reason for doing the latter is if your ONLY concern is your own agenda.

Instead of dwelling on the question of 'did she know that by going to Cerei she would be leading to her father death, I posit another

What do you think she thought was going to happen?

Aside from getting what she wanted, how do you think she thought this would play itself out? She's of an age with people running armies and planning assassinations and so forth...so surely some kind of advanced thinking was available to her. If she was looking at more than 'I want'.

My point is not that she knew Ned would die, or anything like that. She didn't. If she'd known, she acts differently. I think we can all agree.

My point is that she never got to the point of thinking what the consequences would be. All she thought about was what she wanted. And in pursuit of that she knowing did wrong and breached her family's loyalty.

People will say that Ned did not fully inform her of the perils of the situation when he told them they had to pack quickly.

I would respond:


To a degree, but I think that expectation unreasonable. It was a perilous situation (she knew) and he gave a clear command. People running around asking for explanations in those situations are generally thought to be harmful and selfish. And that's just in terms of why she'd need more explanation right here, right now. Not even getting to the 'so barring clarification enough for you, don't run to the enemy for a heart to heart.' kind of follow through.
Re: the context of her decision in the light of the events surrounding Mycah, etc. and her decision to lie to support Joff by omission:

The direwolf thing was a betrayal of Arya/the truth. Someone died as a result, and her direwolf too.

And she learned...?

Again, in the grand scheme of things many people have done worse. But that doesn't alter what she did.

Yes, she lied.

Saying 'I don't remember' when you do is lying. If you are testifying...and she was doing the equivalent..and you say you didn't see something you saw, that's perjury. A lie.

I think her father/Septa offered fairly decent grounds for why she lied/tried to tread a middle ground between the truth and convenience, but she still didn't tell the truth when asked specifically to do so, and deaths were the result. If she learns there, aside from a Butcher Boy more or less, I;d say she paid heavily for her education.

But. she. learned. nothing.

And, more, when her priority was again threatened she went to the very person the direwolf situation should have shown her wasn't on her family's side, against whom her father had himself argued re: Lady, etc. She was blinded by one thing, again: her wants.

Which is usually the cause for betrayal, imo. No one is the bad guy in their own movie...people who do bad usually either think they are doing good or don't get past 'I want'.

Sorry for the awkwardness of some of this, I did the best I could. My keyboard is again driving me batty. (Wireless, and sometimes just has a mind of its own.)

Edited by James Arryn, 15 April 2012 - 10:17 PM.


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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:18 PM

View PostLord Ben, on 15 April 2012 - 08:53 PM, said:

We have access to their POV from the books.  During AGoT Sansa is full of thoughts about herself and her beloved Joeffery and Arya for Jon and her family and the butchers boy Mycah.   Sansa is written to be a snobbish princess with concerns for knights and jousting and not a lot for butchers boys.   It's natural for some people to not like her all that much as a "person" while still enjoying the character.

To me, this is the part that makes Sansa so loathsome. Re-read her chapters. She is the classic Mean Girl: she has a kind of condescending contempt for all the other girls less highborn than she is, even her best friend Jeyne Poole. When Jeyne is taken away, Sansa is relieved, and never gives her another thought.

Sansa is deeply callous. She never thinks about anyone but herself. Even the death of her family, she constructs mostly in terms of her own loss, rather than giving them any value as people. She spends most of her time worrying about herself. Never once does she regret selling out her father to Cersei. Children much younger are supposed to have developed this kind of empathy. Arya has. Bran has. Dany had (she was the same age at the beginning as Sansa is in AFFC).

I'm not worried that Sansa was naive or self-deluding. Lots of others are, also. It's the borderline sociopathy that really has me stunned. Go re-read her chapters... once you know to look for it, you'll see it.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:19 PM

View PostCastel, on 15 April 2012 - 09:56 PM, said:

Kinda like Ned? If you push him far enough, he will crack, especially because he's a psychopath, terrible anger management and disregard for consequences combined with kingship would doom her.
Did you even read the rest of what you quoted ? He said "I think it's likely he even understood after the fact how royally he screwed himself by chopping Ned's head off"

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:21 PM

View PostCastel, on 15 April 2012 - 09:56 PM, said:

Kinda like Ned? If you push him far enough, he will crack, especially because he's a psychopath, terrible anger management and disregard for consequences combined with kingship would doom her.

I argue that Joffrey didn't fully understand the value Ned has a hostage before he had him executed.  Yes, he's a psychopath but psychopathy does not equal stupidity.  Furthermore, both Stark girls have shown an ability to adapt to their situations.  Arya would have adapted accordingly.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:23 PM

Here's more of my pontifical yabbering, this time addressing whether Sansa could be accused of malice aforethought, and its significance in this judgment:

I do not, nor ever have seen her as that kind of malicious person.


I think she didn't think about the consequences, or anything but the dream she saw being snatched away from her. I think ANY thought at all would have told her how dangerous what she was doing...not 'my father might die' dangerous, but something along the lines of Lady/the Butcher Boy, and more, she'd have known she was breaching family loyalty...but I doubt it even got that far.

Incredibly selfish, a betrayal, but not a conscious act to do harm to anyone, no.

I agree, if someone stops her and says 'this could cost your father his life' she doesn't hesitate; heads back the way she came and starts packing. But it shouldn't have needed that kind of interruption, I think, to not do something so unreasonable.

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:28 PM

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I think she

didn't

think about the consequences, or anything but the dream she saw being snatched away from her. I think ANY thought at all would have told her how dangerous what she was doing...not 'my father might die' dangerous, but something along the lines of Lady/the Butcher Boy, and more, she'd have known she was breaching family loyalty...but I doubt it even got that far.



That happened because Joff was hurt though, it's a different situation, it's not like the Queen is gonna kill Ned because he just wanted her to leave... well, in her mind anyway.

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Did you even read the rest of what you quoted ? He said

"I think it's likely he even understood after the fact how royally he screwed himself by chopping Ned's head off"




My point still stands, you combine a temper and a dearth of years and wisdom and absolute power and you have a recipe for disaster. Even if Sansa wasn't killed, you do realise that there are a ton of evil things that Joff can do to her right? And for what? Nothing. That's my point, people want Sansa to hurt herself for no reason and jump on her because she doesn't. Maybe she values her life hm?

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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:31 PM

View PostDr. Pepper, on 15 April 2012 - 10:21 PM, said:

I argue that Joffrey didn't fully understand the value Ned has a hostage before he had him executed.  Yes, he's a psychopath but psychopathy does not equal stupidity.  

True, but some interpretations of the condition would suggest being psychopathic would make it much less likely for him to see the emotional value he held keeping Ned alive. He can't empathize, and so the value would be more theoretical, dependent on observation.

I have no idea what context this is in, I just get easily drawn into discussion.

Edited by James Arryn, 15 April 2012 - 10:31 PM.


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Posted 15 April 2012 - 10:34 PM

View PostThe Imp With A Pimp Limp, on 15 April 2012 - 10:19 PM, said:

Did you even read the rest of what you quoted ? He said "I think it's likely he even understood after the fact how royally he screwed himself by chopping Ned's head off"

Is there any evidence of this, though? Is there any instance where we see Joffrey that shows that he regrets having Ned killed or that he realizes he made a mistake?

I'll say what I said again — Sansa is an 11-year-old girl who's been raised to be a lady, to excel at needlework and dancing, to dress well, to be subservient to authority, to conform to a very rigid class structure, and to expect that her inherent value depends on doing all of those things well. Does she have typical shallow girl fantasies? Sure she does. She's 11. She's lived a very sheltered life, and she's had chivalry overly romanticized to her. No doubt Ned or Catelyn or both have been grooming her for years. "One day you'll marry a great lord and be the lady of his castle." She would have grown up to see that as a worthy and commendable goal, and it would be what would define her life. And people hold it against her that she got the rug pulled out from under her? That she was outsmarted by a woman who was almost literally a professional schemer and 20 years her senior?

And Arya's rejection of traditional gender roles is a reason a lot of people like her, but put me in the camp that thinks she'd've been eaten alive in the capital if she was in Sansa's place. And likewise, Sansa probably wouldn't have survived the Kingsroad. I like both Stark girls and I hate it when people pit them against each other. They're different people in totally different situations.

Edited by Apple Martini, 15 April 2012 - 10:37 PM.