Posted 28 September 2012 - 01:21 PM
Everything Theon did, he did as the only thing he could do. It seems to me that he always acted as if he had no choice. He felt he was doing it wrong, he knew he was going the wrong way, but he couldn't help it, because he didn't know how to make things better. He wasn't even true to himself, because he never knew who he was. He wasn't accepted, and he didn't accept himself. An Ironborn can't have greenlander traits, and a Northman can't be born in the Iron Isles. He was trying to embrace one of these two "clashing" identities to gain the acceptance of his blood relatives, but he lost himself in the process, making the worst decisions ever, and betraying the only person who trusted him. Once he started, he couldn't go back.
One of the worst moments in the books for me is Theon's last chapter in ACoK. He was about to decide to take the black (I think he would have done well at the NW, once he revealed the truth about Bran and Rickon), he was going to do the right thing... he was going to accept! but then Ramsay and the Dreadfort men broke in, slaughtered the other Northmen, burned Winterfell and took him as a prisoner...