Now comes the second part of Olenna and Margaery essay
Ok, the first part was finished with party at Margaery`s chambers, when Sansa was asked if she would like to marry Willas Tyrell.
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Margaery’s kindness had been unfailing, and her presence changed everything. Her ladies welcomed Sansa as well. It had been so long since she had enjoyed the company of other women, she had almost forgotten how pleasant it could be.
Sansa was finally given kindness she craved for so long. She wasn`t happy, but she was indeed relaxed. Margaery and her entourage, orchestrated by Olenna, perfectly did this. They were polite, shared gossips with her, talked freely with her. Burden she carried was almost gone. But Sansa was well aware that all those pleasantries and gossiping couldn`t make her forget everything she had lived.
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They are children, Sansa thought. They are silly little girls, even Elinor. They’ve never seen a battle, they’ve never seen a man die, and they know nothing. Their dreams were full of songs and stories, the way hers had been before Joffrey cut her father’s head off. Sansa pitied them. Sansa envied them.
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Sister. Sansa had once dreamt of having a sister like Margaery; beautiful and gentle, with all the world’s graces at her command. Arya had been entirely unsatisfactory as sisters went. How can I let my sister marry Joffrey? she thought, and suddenly her eyes were full of tears. “Margaery, please,” she said, “you mustn’t.” It was hard to get the words out. “You mustn’t marry him. He’s not like he seems, he’s not. He’ll hurt you.”
“I shouldn’t think so.” Margaery smiled confidently. “It’s brave of you to warn me, but you need not fear. Joff’s spoiled and vain and I don’t doubt that he’s as cruel as you say, but Father forced him to name Loras to his Kingsguard before he would agree to the match. I shall have the finest knight in the Seven Kingdoms protecting me night and day, as Prince Aemon protected Naerys. So our little lion had best behave, hadn’t he?” She laughed.
Can we say that in this point everything was settled? For sure, Dontos already gave Sansa a hairnet, and Margaery`s confidence and certainty is just a proof that Joffrey`s days were numbered. Poor Sansa. She loved Margaery, she enjoyed her company, she was happy to marry her brother. I don`t believe that Tyrells wanted to blame her for Joffrey`s death, I think they meant that Tyrion would suffice. After all, Sansa would have been part of family. What Sansa have learnt here? She learnt what she already knew, but she was taught another way. Sweet words, kind gestures, it s all like hidden knife pointed in someone`s back. Sansa all of this used in Eyrie, false kindness meant to buy devotion from suffered girl. Sweetrobin became her, and she became Margaery. Did Margaery love Sansa? The answer would be: as same as Sansa loves Sweetrobin. Margaery taught her that love is also weapon in your arsenal, and it is all right to use it.
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Margaery gave her such a sad look, and when the Queen of Thorns tottered in between Left and Right, she never looked at her at all. Elinor, Alla, and Megga seemed determined not to know her. My friends, Sansa thought bitterly.
This of course changed everything. I believe Queen of Thorns meant to blame Tyrion for Joffrey`s murder, but Sansa got involved, so they threw her under the bus. Here, Sansa lost everything. And right there, she revealed how fragile those friendships were. No one cared about her, it was just her claim they all wanted. And when they stopped needing her, they despised her. What a wonderful parallel can be made with situation with Cersei. She learnt all over again, trust no one…
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Tyrion led Sansa around the yard, to perform the necessary courtesies. She is good at this, he thought, as he watched her tell Lord Gyles that his cough was sounding better, compliment Elinor Tyrell on her gown, and question Jalabhar Xho about wedding customs in the Summer Isles… She would have made Joffrey a good queen and a better wife if he’d had the sense to love her.
Courtesy is lady`s armor…But, no, it also can be a powerful weapon. I actually think Sansa finally understand that she can be as same as deadly talking courtesies as shouting and telling what she thinks. Or even more. That armor line was supposed to teach young ladies to be polite and well-mannered, but in Game, they take completely another form.
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“Your brother was a terrible traitor, I know, but if we start killing men at weddings they’ll be even more frightened of marriage than they are presently. There, that’s better.” Lady Olenna smiled. “I am pleased to say I shall be leaving for Highgarden the day after next. I have had quite enough of this smelly city, thank you. Perhaps you would like to accompany me for a little visit, whilst the men are off having their war? I shall miss my Margaery so dreadfully, and all her lovely ladies. Your company would be such sweet solace.”
This is very peculiar. People on forums talk that one day we`ll have Red Wedding 2.0, I actually think Purple wedding is some sort of that, in honor of very simple truth “Lannister always pays his debts.” And second, can we interpret on two ways? Maybe, I`ll give you both options, and you pick one you like. First, Olenna inviting Sansa is another proof that she hasn`t given up of marrying Sansa to Willas, and now without Robb, North would be free for Tyrells. And second, it was just polite conversation. I believe in first, I don`t think Sansa was meant to be blamed here, she could have been more useful to Tyrells, and that`s maybe the main reasons why Sansa don`t hold grudges against two of them.
The end. Was it exhausting for you, I don`t know, it has been privilege for me. What Sansa learnt from Tyrells is simply truth she already knew. Rose is beautiful, it can smell nice, it can look divine, but beneath all those leafs and that beauty, there are thorns, that can be deadly as same as lion`s roar and wolf`s howling. Tyrells gave Sansa ultimate lesson, and she have learnt when she come at Eyrie…If you want to survive, play the Game of thrones (or even more appropriately Game of THORNS, J). I hope I wasn`t disappointment, and that you enjoy reading this.