the girl i had dated all of 1st grade who kept circling back in my life has been stalking me for a few weeks now. showing up places i was (small town didn't think much of it) txts, emails phone calls all elevating on the level of alarming...
she threatened the girl i had gone out on a date with yesterday and told her she would stab both of us.
this is unique timing as our one town cop was fired a month ago, not yet replaced, and our chief of police just got suspended largely due to an investigation that i lead two months ago.
so there are no "local" cops to enforce this and i have to go through the sheriff's office and hope they or the state police are near by if they are needed.
i didn't really see any issue at all with how Peterbound was addressing PA. it's how he always used to speak to me i never took issue with it.
so, the new beard look is treating me very well. getting lots of new attention from people i have known telling me they love it.
this weekend i did a bad thing. one of the 18 year olds I mentioned in past threads came to my house (just showed up uninvited yet was not creepy) and threw herself at me. she had been trying for a while but this was next level... i finally gave in because it's winter, cold, unfun and everyone around here has been defeated by life and her energy and ability to just be happy was intoxicating. next day, all was happy, she went off to work and we've txted a little since. she seems in a good place about it mentally and i am very relieved about that.
i went for a follow up appointment with my surgeon to check on how my finger is healing. I ran into the physician's assistant who set it for me. We had been txting some and went out before. We snagged lunch together in the hospital cafeteria. I am meeting her tonight at a new wine bar that opened. She still is a little serious and void of humor for me, but perhaps it's just I always see her to close to work mode. She is beautiful, in great shape, great job and lives close enough to actually have a relationship with. So if we could click more personality wise it would be amazing.
Things have cooled some with the Albanian girl. Her look for a job or PhD program is causing her depression and she is shutting down. We don't skype for as long and you can only say the same rhetoric of encouragement each day. This distance is starting to wear on both of us. I still plan to go and see her next month, and she is still my first choice. I had to see her down and wish I could do more but she is shutting me out as well in terms of communication and making herself available to chat.
I am torn because I like to date one person at a time and throw all I have into it, yet it's been different due to the distance and feeling like I'd be foolish to pass up chances to get to know other people while realistically Albanian girl and I won't survive.
FancyWaitress girl has been completely eliminated at this stage. She is a lot of fun to hang out with, but long term partner wise she just is coming up very very short.
I did a standup show in NYC a couple months back and performed with one of the girls from MTV's Girl Code. We went out as a group after the show and I got along great with her one friend. I am going back to NYC this weekend to do a show and the girl is going to come and agreed to hit some bars after. after we made that plan, a week later she offered for me to stay with her and i accepted, I am crashing at her place so I don't have to pay for a hotel or head back upstate after the show. So drinks after the show, crash at her place, brunch in the morning then back home... We have been nice and slightly flirty on the phone and txt after we met. The MTV comic txted me that her friend was excited to see me. I have no idea what to expect but on paper it's looking like a very intense first date!