deleted01 Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 Now I want to see your ring Drac :p Mine is kinda a blue rose, although I didn't realise that till after the design process. What can I say, I'm a fan of Lyanna Stark. It's on Facebook, if you can be bothered to look back to last September :laugh: I think I saw yours and brooks? If they're what I'm thinking of, they're awesome. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lily Valley Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 Wow... Have you thought about chaunging your number and blocking him on OKCupid? I'm not sure if the amusement factor is worth the crazy vibes this guy puts off. I am certainly NOT going to change my telephone number. I no longer use OKC and only log in to stalk y'all's profiles. I've thought about blocking, but I want a record of this clown car bullshit in case it ever escalates. This is the first time I responded since my "thanks, but no thanks" Message after date 3. We'll see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlefingers In The Air Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 If you want a record, can't you just save screenshots? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
All-for-Joffrey Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 I am certainly NOT going to change my telephone number. I no longer use OKC and only log in to stalk y'all's profiles. I've thought about blocking, but I want a record of this clown car bullshit in case it ever escalates. This is the first time I responded since my "thanks, but no thanks" Message after date 3. We'll see. You can also block specific numbers so they can't contact you. As for a record on OKC, just do print screen and save the pictures, then block him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theda Baratheon Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 OMG. The guy from three years ago sent me another wall of text. Let me go get the phone so I can treat you to this verbatim: Three dates. Three YEARS AGO. After that third date he ended up using some information he got from a mutual friend combined with information from my OKCupid profile to stir up a whole bunch of shit. In addition, he started crazy texting like this before I found out about the gossip issue. Gee, wonder why I didn't want to continue to date him. I've been getting messages like this at random every month or two at around midnight. I also get a wall of text every time I reopen my OKC profile. I texted him to stop contacting me. OF COURSE he responded. WTF tho?!?!?! Three YEARS??? THat is soooooo creepy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlefingers In The Air Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 How do y'all feel about modesty as a trait in a dating partner? Is it something y'all look for? I can appreciate the trait, but it's not something I look for, personally. I like blunt women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Tiger Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 How do y'all feel about modesty as a trait in a dating partner? Is it something y'all look for? I can appreciate the trait, but it's not something I look for, personally. I like blunt women. Here, here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arkhangel Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 It's a balance like everything else, I think. Confidence is attractive, but no one likes a braggart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elder Sister Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 I think confidence is good, but kindness is more important to me. I have a family member that says, "I'm just being honest," as an excuse to batter people with her opinions. It could certainly be classified as blunt, but it's not very thoughtful. Bluntness is sometimes used as code for rude. I can be plainspoken without being an ass. Just my .02. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlefingers In The Air Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 I can get behind what y'all are saying. Nobody wants a pompous ass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalbear Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 As the saying go, just be a humble man with a big dick and you'll be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IamMe90 Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 I am certainly NOT going to change my telephone number. I no longer use OKC and only log in to stalk y'all's profiles. I've thought about blocking, but I want a record of this clown car bullshit in case it ever escalates. This is the first time I responded since my "thanks, but no thanks" Message after date 3. We'll see. Most smartphones have a feature to add individual phone numbers to a "reject list" which will prevent their texts and phone calls from appearing to you. I've used it myself quite a few times with crazies that won't leave me alone... highly recommend! If you have a smartphone and are unsure of how to do this, I'd be happy to tell you how. GL, being borderline text/online stalked can be really fucking annoying :dunce: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lily Valley Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 Thanks all. If I had done this, I would be completely unaware of the continued behavior. Can you understand why I'd want to know he was still doing this? If I block the number will it tell him I blocked him? If not, what's the point? I am not upset by recieving these messages. I'm upset because I think his behavior is obsessive and inappropriate. He lives close to my neighborhood. I've regarded the messages as a crazy person's polite heads up that I should run and hide if I ever see him in public. You know, like Chandrian! Chandrian! Anyway ladies and gents, be cautious out there. My OKC is disabled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aceluby Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 Received an email from my ex this morning. Her cousin od'd on heroin last week and is brain-dead. They are pulling the plug today. First time she's contacted me in the 2 months we've been broken up. She invited me to go with her to the funeral, which I politely declined as being awkward and a bit inappropriate. Will send flowers & a card to her aunt and uncle though. On a much more positive note, I'm going out w/ band girl tomorrow night after a National Night Out gig and also have tentative plans for Friday night as well. We seem to be hitting it off quite well at this point and are on the same page of keeping it fun and casual. Makes things surprisingly easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elder Sister Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 I have been texting with a friend in Seattle and he makes me laugh pretty hard, which is a requirement. He also remembers me as a hot teenager, since we went to HS together. We're supposed to meet up in 2 weeks and I have to say that meeting someone who knows who Dan Halen is is heady stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tears of Lys Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 @ES: That sounds like fun! Being around old high school friends take you right back to that carefree time.Enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elder Sister Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 He has invited me to a chicken wing eating contest and a mud wrestling event. I may be in love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Salome the Persian Witch Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 ES - so fun! He can remember you as a hot teenager, but now he can see you as a hot woman! :eek: :drool: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aceluby Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 ES, that sounds awesome. Have fun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arch-MaesterPhilip Posted August 3, 2015 Share Posted August 3, 2015 Have a great time ES! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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