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Ok, since we're seriously addressing this...

The chances are not quite as slim as you might think, Sci. Especially in metros like Mumbai and Delhi and among certain demographics. Happens all the time. Certainly not the same amount of sexual liberalism as in the West, but not "insanely slim" either. Basically, all he has to do is go to college.

Hmmmm, must be getting my info from the more conservative end of the spectrum. All the people from grad-school that I knew either didn't have sex or had sex after a long term relationship, but never heard of one night stands [happening].

Of course they might have thought I was the conservative one and not shared all the info.

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To be fair, things have changed dramatically in the last decade, as I've been led to believe. Not just in the instance, but also that people are more open about it; it was probably happening quite a bit before but was much more clandestine. Teaching at the university level in urban India in the last few years has seriously opened my eyes.

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To be fair, things have changed dramatically in the last decade, as I've been led to believe. Not just in the instance, but also that people are more open about it; it was probably happening quite a bit before but was much more clandestine. Teaching at the university level in urban India in the last few years has seriously opened my eyes.

I don't know about you but personally I blame white boy swagger for corrupting the youth.

That and Friends.

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I may cum to the United States for my masters if i get a good college...the girls in my engineering college in Bombay arent really interested in sex and arent interesting either. So 4 more years of abstinence it seems :/

Also i want to return to india after studies, (incase i do go to us for PG)so really only one good shot.

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And your point is that you are a human being. We all are. Sorry if people view you as a sex object. We don't view you that way at all...you are the one that brings it up. I am sorry that you have been treated in such a manner that you are uncomfortable with presenting yourself without your past history.

Your kidding right? It was joke. Please tell me your kidding. Tell me your sense of humor is super and dry that's all. You can't think I was serious.

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I may cum to the United States for my masters if i get a good college...the girls in my engineering college in Bombay arent really interested in sex and arent interesting either. So 4 more years of abstinence it seems :/

Also i want to return to india after studies, so really only one good shot.

You mean to say "come".

"Cum" actually means to have an orgasm, so it's kind of amusing. :-)

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I think it's clear that with all this 'White Boy Swagger' dogshit, we actually have Bieber in our midst. Hi Biebs!

So being white and having swagger is dog shit. Not really sure who your talking to, granted Biebs kind of sucks, but it's the whole judging people by the color of their skin. I forget what do they call that?

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Sci what is New Age??

It's an overarching term for people that hold various beliefs, everything from Pre-Christian European religions to shamanism to crystal ceremonies.

I've found the people involved in such things are pretty fun and laid back. I remember one party had an intermission, where there was this crystal ceremony. It was kind of like a religious ceremony - very cool.

eta:

I had best sex of my life before I became very promiscuous/poly, so the two probably don't correlate. Actually these days, I feel bad at times, because I have become jaded and disappointed about sex. I often feel drained of sexual energy and sometimes choose not to have sex to try and balance out a bit. Other times I crave it, but once after it's done, I feel like I've wasted time and effort. As with everything in life: too much of anything can never be a good thing.

I believer the sex had in intimate relationships is chemically different from the sex had in less emotionally engaged situations?

Not saying that's definitive or one kind is better but perhaps you physically enjoy intimacy more even if psychologically you prefer promiscuity?

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I may cum to the United States for my masters if i get a good college...the girls in my engineering college in Bombay arent really interested in sex and arent interesting either. So 4 more years of abstinence it seems :/

Also i want to return to india after studies, (incase i do go to us for PG)so really only one good shot.

Have you considered that maybe they aren't really interested in sex with you?

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But yeah, by porn star sex I mean fantasy sex/what most adults never experience and only masturbate to whether it's in porn, books, imagination, etc. Of course, porn sex taken literally is not very appealing due to realities of the industry, that's when abuse,drugs, stds, etc come in. But I really meant the glamorous picture of it.

So you have a lot of glamorous pictures of sex? I still don't understand what you mean. Do really hot plumbers occasionally drop by to 'check your pipes'?

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Your kidding right? It was joke. Please tell me your kidding. Tell me your sense of humor is super and dry that's all. You can't think I was serious.

Bone dry. She gives me cottonmouth.

It's an overarching term for people that hold various beliefs, everything from Pre-Christian European religions to shamanism to crystal ceremonies.

I've found the people involved in such things are pretty fun and laid back. I remember one party had an intermission, where there was this crystal ceremony. It was kind of like a religious ceremony - very cool.

eta:

I believer the sex had in intimate relationships is chemically different from the sex had in less emotionally engaged situations?

Not saying that's definitive or one kind is better but perhaps you physically enjoy intimacy more even if psychologically you prefer promiscuity?

STOP IT! THIS TIME IT WAS BEER AND IT HIT THE WALL! :fencing: My sinuses are killing me and I know my belly will ache for a week.

On topic, I have a date tomorrow with an extremely pushy fellow. He can't follow simple instructions. I think this one is a wash.

Not a word from Hordor.

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Might want to edit your post to something more like the above.

Normally I would agree with you, but you can never know how traumatizing of an experience it was unless you've experienced it too. :crying:

All my favorite things in beer form, I must have it.

DON'T DO IT!!!! It always looks good in the beginning. I didn't heed the warnings, and look what happened to me.

STOP IT! THIS TIME IT WAS BEER AND IT HIT THE WALL! :fencing: My sinuses are killing me and I know my belly will ache for a week.

Hey, don't be dissing the new age crowd. Where do you think all these exciting polyamorous relationships come from?

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Did you pose hodor as a statement, question, or exclamation? I have to assume variety would be a solid tactic on that front.

This time a question. If we get past the second round, I'll go with an exclamation.

Hey, don't be dissing the new age crowd. Where do you think all these exciting polyamorous relationships come from?

From my city, we're outsourcing those Fuckers. They only work one day a week.

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the girls in my engineering college in Bombay arent really interested in sex and arent interesting either.

You mean "this conversation is boring me; want to shag instead?" doesn't work as a pickup line? How strange.

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Normally I would agree with you, but you can never know how traumatizing of an experience it was unless you've experienced it too. :crying:
I tried the beer when I was in Portland last year. It was so awful I couldn't even finish a small glass of it. The smell of artificial bacon flavouring was overwhelming and made me feel nauseated.

However, drinking a beer that tastes so horrible that you want to spit it out is not the same thing as being raped. The use of rape as a verb to describe anything other than rape is offensive. It's in the same ballpark as 'George Lucas raped my childhood with the Star Wars prequels' or 'Man, I TOTALLY raped that test'.

OT: Mandy: I'm surprised at your comments about needing to nudge guys to ask you to meet up. It seems like you're saying that you are waiting for the guy to make the first move? Why can't you just do the asking yourself? If you want to meet someone in person what is wrong with being the one to make the suggestion? I certainly did this in my limited experience of online dating. The worst thing that can happen is they'll say no... and if a person you've never met before but were thinking of dating doesn't want to meet in person then that's resolved the situation pretty neatly anyway and you can move on. I'm just surprised that someone as outspoken and confident as you would wait to be asked. :)

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