Interesting to see different perspectives from that angrygot article that has been shared. This scene has gotten a much more mixed reaction than I expected. Amanda Marcotte, whose article many have criticized, is a reasonably well-known feminist blogger and wrt real life rape cases has been pretty much the opposite of a rape apologist, so I was not expecting that take from her.
For me I can see why some people are defending the scene, but I just don't think D&D deserve any kind of trust or benefit of the doubt when it comes to these things.