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    People, reading, writing, illustrating, Kendo, work/life balance, laughter... lots of shit, really.

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  1. JEORDHl

    Bakker LIV - Soul Sphincter

    Oh my fucking god, I laughed so hard. Wooooo... !
  2. JEORDHl

    Feminism -- A continuing discussion

    I've spent the better part of seven or eight hours over the last few days deep diving into this shit so I could get a handle on it and the only result I've arrived at thus far [taking a serious break] are emotions ranging from anger to shame. I mean, I have semi-regular conversations with my daughters about problematic individuals at their school [and occasional with staff at said school about the same] but if one of them caught wind about incels from any of their precocious friends I'm sure I'd hold forth about as intelligently as a forehead meets a maul.
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    Feminism -- A continuing discussion

    Yeah and it's strange, you know? Last night while poking around something sparked a memory about a show I watched, or interview: basically, In Japan it's becoming increasingly common for men [and women] to choose not to date for many reasons, work demands, finances and so on, and the birthrate there is continuously dropping. IIRC, they were interviewing guys who were having sim relationships with their nintendos or something. Anyway. Did some googling and there doesn't seem to be a correlating uptick of incel verbal abuse/violence so it made me wonder if lack of agency is a large part in where the violent fantasies comes from. i. a young boy bullied by other boys: is usually physical but not always. Said youth fights back or takes it. Both help shape him, and from a developmental point of view I don't imagine one route is fundamentally better than the other ii. a young boy bullied by girls: is usually verbal but not always. I have a hard time imagining this is common, but I don't know. Said youth... doesn't fight back? Most don't [? speculation] but is being bullied by a girl intrinsically worse than being bullied by another boy? Depending upon 'masculine' role models, I'd say the answer to both is that its likely Children and adolescents are pretty casual with their rejection/exclusion of others, so in either case, young boy's social circle has tightened considerably. If parental figures don't notice the withdrawal, or dig down to the cause of it instead of the handwaved explanations, young boy's feelings of isolation and powerless deepen. He didn't ask to be born. Didn't ask to be born like this. Is this why incels revile Chads and Stacys so? When there's no choice other than the personal consequence of circumstance, it's, what... injustice?
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    Normies, Roasties, Stacys, Chads, Stepchads, Femoids. It's a whole different language. Taking a break, and will try not to ask myself why I'm doing this to myself. I know why.
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    lol That was one of my first instincts as well, El Causto. Where. Is. Cerys. --- I've written and backspaced 3 separate posts about incels. I don't know where to start. So then I wonder, am I ill-equipped for this subject? CAN I be ill-equipped? Yeah. And that's part of the problem as Karaddin's link suggests.
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    I can own that on many of the early iterations of this board I was one, if not the worst, offender in that respect. I feel you, M.
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    I understand, or at least I think I do, that you're trying to show at root that this is more of 'human' psychological issue as opposed to specific sex based one-- but I don't agree. That's why I don't like it. Not because it's bad per se, but because I think it's wrong. We [men] have a problem. That problem is us. And, imo, the only way women come into that conversation -about that particular problem- is because far, far, FAR more often than not... our problems become theirs.
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    There's something about the way manky thinks out loud that I don't like. Everything seems to circle back to women,when, re: incels, women are only [only? how horrid] the victims. Again.
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    The title of the thread stopped registering after I read Theda's latest post. This whole incel thing is quite new [to me] but due to the Toronto attack et other shit I've been reading lately, no small of amount of my thoughts have revolved around that MALE problem. So, if this quote above was directed in any wayshapeform at me, X-Ray-- I apologize. ETA: Maybe a different thread for that topic is more appropriate. ETA Part Deux: And don't invite mankytoes.
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    Feminism - Post-apocalypse version

    That's a tough one, Theda. I've given it a fair amount of thought lately, and I just don't know how society wins. This shit, imo, starts on the level of the individual: rejected, disenfranchised, lonely [whatever] MALE seeks solace, companionship [whatever] but, instead of self checking whatever behaviors/standards are perpetuating their miserable experience so they can improve the latter, they instead find a group of like minded guys and work themselves up into a supersymmetrical hate machine. I mean, there are many, many reasons why these individuals get rejected and some of those might have nothing to do with what kind of quality they are. The result though is how they choose to cope and/or deal with it, and this last bit seems to entirely by filtered by the fact that they are MALE. Like, how do we stop that? As opposed to support groups that validate their bullshit, I have a hard time imagining [most] men looking for support groups are actually seeking groups that will help them be better men.
  11. Please, enlighten me. Not trying to be overly confrontational here, but I have to call bullshit. Quotes and explanations please, because to this latter part... ...I appreciated Michelle's routine as truth to power over comedy, personally speaking.
  12. We got this machine ticking along nicely, let's not put our access in peril now. le sigh All these media types whinging about Michelle's routine are amusing. Most especially since it's the comparatively little side-eyed squint at their own reflection they didn't like. Fucking pathetic.
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    Avengers: Infinity War - SPOILERS THREAD

    For those of you speculating those dead and whom sremains dead-- as the camera slow zoomed past Vision didn't anyone else notice his finger twitching? Stay dead? Dude didn't even die.
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    U.S. Politics: Are You Threadening Me Master Jedi?

    Oh wait, hold up right there Crow [already chuckling in anticipation] which 'alpha' males are you referring to, precisely?
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    What Do You Do When You Are Bored?

    Boredom happens quite frequently to me. Active and passive responses in no particular order: i. draw ii. write iii. daydream iv. read v. walk vi. watch something vii. argue/seek confrontation [latter is rare, now, and largely predicated upon being in a pissy mood as well]
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