Chataya de Fleury Posted October 31, 2021 Share Posted October 31, 2021 (edited) ETA - things are going really well. Sadly, I had to cancel my Palm Beach vacation, due to work obligations, but it’s really for the best. I moved the dates of that to around my birthday. Firm is buying plane tickets and getting the resort package settled today for the “end of the year” vacation. ETA: destination: 10 days in Aruba!!! Edited January 26, 2022 by Chataya de Fleury Starkess, HoodedCrow and Mlle. Zabzie 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceChampion Posted November 2, 2021 Share Posted November 2, 2021 this is a thing that exists and I must share: sologdin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted November 2, 2021 Share Posted November 2, 2021 1 hour ago, SpaceChampion said: this is a thing that exists and I must share: I have so, so many questions, though the first has to be aliens/monsters, WTF? Chataya de Fleury and SpaceChampion 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chataya de Fleury Posted November 3, 2021 Author Share Posted November 3, 2021 (edited) 2 hours ago, Tywin et al. said: I have so, so many questions, though the first has to be aliens/monsters, WTF? Amen. And some of it truly has to be fake. I had to look up “vore”. I’ve been with a lot of people, many of them with varied and specific fetishes, and this is never something that I’ve run across. Edited November 3, 2021 by Chataya de Fleury Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 34 minutes ago, Chataya de Fleury said: Amen. And some of it truly has to be fake. I had to look up “vore”. I’ve been with a lot of people, many of them with varied and specific fetishes, and this is never something that I’ve run across. Scat threw me off, as did a few other terms as well. I think it would be a lot more interesting if it was just stripped down () to the questions relating to dominance in the bedroom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VigoTheCarpathian Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 1 hour ago, Tywin et al. said: Scat threw me off, as did a few other terms as well. I think it would be a lot more interesting if it was just stripped down () to the questions relating to dominance in the bedroom. They are mixed in there on the categories, submission/dominance, etc. - but fetishes don’t map directly onto bedroom preferences. This seems more of a “list of random fetish-y things people search for online or have thought about” rather than what people actually practice. Or at least I hope so, as there are some egregiously illegal dots in that mix. And there are many that are also not on that list that are much more common in practice and fantasy (i.e., shibari, group sex) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiko Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 Had to look up that one weird and creepy fetish : "other positions than missionary". I guess there are some strange people outside. Chataya de Fleury, Buckwheat, Tywin et al. and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sologdin Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 am pleased to see that necrophilia ended up on the far right for both grids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 7 minutes ago, sologdin said: am pleased to see that necrophilia ended up on the far right for both grids. Eva Peron's corpse would like a word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Horse Named Stranger Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 I must admit, I was familar with most terms. Louding was the exception, still not sure what that is. And I am not sure, I want to want to know. 12 hours ago, Chataya de Fleury said: Amen. And some of it truly has to be fake. I had to look up “vore”. Omnivore, carnivore. Anyway, I am not cannibal I am just vore, is probably a great sentence and a failsafe way to end a first date for good, if you are desperate to get out. 11 hours ago, Tywin et al. said: Scat threw me off, as did a few other terms as well. Ok, I'll make the obligatory 2 girls one Ty joke. So that the joke's not entirely on ty, I'll share a small story. When I was 18 or so, my back-then girlfriend sent me a link to gross me out for the lolz. scat girls com or some shit like that. Two takeaways, one she succeeded and two, I learnt and never forgot the meaning of the word scat in sexual context. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoodedCrow Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 I’m glad that the forum doesn’t post photographs now:) Chataya de Fleury 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 *insert random joke that regular German sex makes everyone else's kinky sex look tame* Chataya de Fleury 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sologdin Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 (edited) also amusing: the extremities of both authoritarian leftists and extreme libertarian rightists report no fetishes, as per the trendline in the graphs. assuming no lack of candor, the explanation is likely that stalinists as they become more ideologically puritanical (zhdanovists as left puritans), they tend to prefer vanilla encounters, whereas objectivists are just incels. Edited November 3, 2021 by sologdin Larry of the Lake 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VigoTheCarpathian Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 (edited) 18 minutes ago, sologdin said: also amusing: the extremities of both authoritarian leftists and extreme libertarian rightists report no fetishes, as per the trendline in the graphs. assuming no lack of candor, the explanation is likely that stalinists as they become more ideologically puritanical (zhdanovists as left puritans), they tend to prefer vanilla encounters, whereas objectivists are just incels. The more ideologically puritanical you are, you probably have more tendency view/judge/filter kinky shit through that lens - so like religion, could see sex ending up as an expression of political beliefs, instead of as it’s own thing. And/or you just have less mental bandwidth to resolve the two things. Hard agree about objectivists - the high-dollar sex doll market probably could have been predicted as an outcome of Atlas Shrugged. 43 minutes ago, Tywin et al. said: *insert random joke that regular German sex makes everyone else's kinky sex look tame* See above: could we assume a very large Venn diagram overlap between Germany, nihilism and kink? Edited November 3, 2021 by VigoTheCarpathian Forgot about the objectivists Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ormond Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 17 hours ago, SpaceChampion said: this is a thing that exists and I must share: The highest correlation here was only 0.12, so the amount of variance explained in terms of these particular sexual fetishes by one's position on this political chart is only 1.44% at the most. So nobody should suggest any particular activity to a partner just by knowing their politics and think that'll give them some advantage. sologdin and mormont 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMC Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 10 minutes ago, Ormond said: so the amount of variance explained in terms of these particular sexual fetishes by one's position on this political chart is only 1.44% at the most. Yeah that's a really low r-squared. Ormond 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maithanet Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 I'm not going to judge what consenting adults do in their own bedrooms. And most of the things on that chart have nothing to do with political preferences. You could as easily map out sexual peccadillos vs whether people prefer apples or oranges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceChampion Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 (edited) 53 minutes ago, sologdin said: also amusing: the extremities of both authoritarian leftists and extreme libertarian rightists report no fetishes, as per the trendline in the graphs. assuming no lack of candor, the explanation is likely that stalinists as they become more ideologically puritanical (zhdanovists as left puritans), they tend to prefer vanilla encounters, whereas objectivists are just incels. That could be it. Or they're both humourless cultists. Been reading about cults lately and humour is discouraged because it invites criticism and self-reflection. Edited November 3, 2021 by SpaceChampion sologdin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IheartIheartTesla Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 40 minutes ago, DMC said: Yeah that's a really low r-squared. Sometimes all you want to know is if your potential mate passes the F-test. Ormond, Prince of the North, DMC and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMC Posted November 3, 2021 Share Posted November 3, 2021 4 minutes ago, IheartIheartTesla said: Sometimes all you want to know is if your potential mate passes the F-test. Well done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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