Chataya de Fleury Posted February 3, 2022 Author Share Posted February 3, 2022 30 minutes ago, BigFatCoward said: Would you not rather have them twice when they were half as expensive? I buy myself roses a lot, so I already get them when they aren’t marked up significantly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLastWolf Posted February 3, 2022 Share Posted February 3, 2022 Big V day is overrated here, being a stoopid commonwealth, ironic considering what happened to St Valentine. Gross Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chataya de Fleury Posted February 5, 2022 Author Share Posted February 5, 2022 Well, everyone, how goes the dating? I just ordered a book on shibari technique, and also got him a card and some chocolates for Valentine’s Day. Elder Sister 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mlle. Zabzie Posted February 5, 2022 Share Posted February 5, 2022 My husband cares a lot more about Valentines Day than I do. So we go out to dinner and do something nice and he loves it and I get a good dinner. Elder Sister and Chataya de Fleury 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMC Posted February 6, 2022 Share Posted February 6, 2022 1 hour ago, Mlle. Zabzie said: he loves it and I get a good dinner. VigoTheCarpathian, Elder Sister, HelenaExMachina and 3 others 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VigoTheCarpathian Posted February 6, 2022 Share Posted February 6, 2022 @Chataya de Fleury - thedutchy is a very good beginner tutorial site (not linking because NSFW, but it’s educational, not anything smutty). And I’d recommend finding a reputable safety class if you have one in your area - all bodies are different, and even basic ties sometimes can hit nerves/joints in negative ways. Dating for me has been…weird. Took a step back on the relationship escalator with my regular weekly date, Ms. M - she wants a little more emotional connection than what I am capable of right now, so we are just seeing each other for lunch dates. Having regular climbing meet-ups with some kinky people, and gotten to know a guy acquaintance better through it - he’s bi and respectfully has told me I’m his guy type, which was unexpected and really set my head spinning at this point in my life. I’m rarely attracted to men, and haven’t had any real scenario where there was mutual interest and could pursue it - but 2022 might be that year. Chataya de Fleury 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liffguard Posted February 6, 2022 Share Posted February 6, 2022 16 hours ago, Chataya de Fleury said: Well, everyone, how goes the dating? For the time being, it doesn't A True Kaniggit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post HelenaExMachina Posted February 6, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted February 6, 2022 So, I spoke with the friend who asked me to go to the wedding with her during the week, bit my tongue and just directly asked how she had intended it. She had meant it as a date but had been nervous to ask in case I said no and things got weird between us, so she'd framed it in a way that it could have been a date or just as friends. Anyway, we talked about it at length, decided to treat it as a date, and we had a wonderful time at the wedding. We've made plans for the next couple of weekends (making the most of it as we both have very busy schedules for March and April) so I guess we'll see how things go HoodedCrow, Ser Reptitious, Week and 21 others 24 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fragile Bird Posted February 6, 2022 Share Posted February 6, 2022 So your instincts were very sensitive indeed! Mlle. Zabzie and Chataya de Fleury 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elder Sister Posted February 7, 2022 Share Posted February 7, 2022 (edited) I'm going to make Mr. ES a chocolate layer cake for V'day. He'll get me something but no one ever buys me chocolates, which is what I always want. So I'll probably buy myself some. Yay, @HelenaExMachina! That's wonderful! Edited February 7, 2022 by Elder Sister Starkess, Mlle. Zabzie and Chataya de Fleury 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chataya de Fleury Posted February 7, 2022 Author Share Posted February 7, 2022 On 2/6/2022 at 8:57 AM, HelenaExMachina said: So, I spoke with the friend who asked me to go to the wedding with her during the week, bit my tongue and just directly asked how she had intended it. She had meant it as a date but had been nervous to ask in case I said no and things got weird between us, so she'd framed it in a way that it could have been a date or just as friends. Anyway, we talked about it at length, decided to treat it as a date, and we had a wonderful time at the wedding. We've made plans for the next couple of weekends (making the most of it as we both have very busy schedules for March and April) so I guess we'll see how things go Niiiiiice!!!! Super happy for you!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jhogo's Evil Twin Posted February 8, 2022 Share Posted February 8, 2022 Dating is going super slowly right now. i guess it is for the best since i am coming off a 12 year relationship with the last 5 of those being long distance. I'm mostly distracting myself with work and finding more social hobbies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DireWolfSpirit Posted February 8, 2022 Share Posted February 8, 2022 Ouch, this did not go the way this guy thought it was going to! I gave my husband a threesome — and then I left him for a woman https://nypost.com/2022/02/07/women-are-leaving-their-husbands-for-girlfriends?utm_source=drive&utm_campaign=android_nypost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fragile Bird Posted February 8, 2022 Share Posted February 8, 2022 1 hour ago, DireWolfSpirit said: Ouch, this did not go the way this guy thought it was going to! I gave my husband a threesome — and then I left him for a woman https://nypost.com/2022/02/07/women-are-leaving-their-husbands-for-girlfriends?utm_source=drive&utm_campaign=android_nypost The link to ‘mom has ruler tattoo to measure the penis size of partners’ was quite the story as well. Chataya de Fleury 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starkess Posted February 9, 2022 Share Posted February 9, 2022 Btw, my boyfriend asked me about my opinions on gemstones the other day...we're on ring watch people... (Don't worry, we have great communication and have actually talked about getting married several times, but the timeline has been purposefully vague!) Elder Sister, HelenaExMachina, Mlle. Zabzie and 13 others 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chataya de Fleury Posted February 9, 2022 Author Share Posted February 9, 2022 (edited) 13 hours ago, Starkess said: Btw, my boyfriend asked me about my opinions on gemstones the other day...we're on ring watch people... (Don't worry, we have great communication and have actually talked about getting married several times, but the timeline has been purposefully vague!) I don’t know if I’d ever want a ring again. So much societal expectation, although maybe those are less these days and at my age. But, you are excited, so congratulations!!! Edited February 9, 2022 by Chataya de Fleury Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liffguard Posted February 20, 2022 Share Posted February 20, 2022 I am extremely hungover, and I think my ex's sister was hitting on me last night. That is all. Fragile Bird and Chataya de Fleury 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigFatCoward Posted February 20, 2022 Share Posted February 20, 2022 21 minutes ago, Liffguard said: I am extremely hungover, and I think my ex's sister was hitting on me last night. That is all. Go on. What's the worst that could happen. Isalie, Elder Sister and Chataya de Fleury 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chataya de Fleury Posted February 20, 2022 Author Share Posted February 20, 2022 1 hour ago, Liffguard said: I am extremely hungover, and I think my ex's sister was hitting on me last night. That is all. I say go for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liffguard Posted February 20, 2022 Share Posted February 20, 2022 Eh, I'll consider it once my brain stops trying to break out of my skull with a jackhammer. On the one hand, it has the potential to be grenade dropped into the middle of my social life. On the other hand, I've lost count of the number of potential matches I've talked myself out of due to possible messiness. Maybe time to break that pattern. Chataya de Fleury 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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