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Chataya de Fleury
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9 hours ago, BigFatCoward said:

I've never unserstood, nor felt insecure about having a much younger and hotter wife. It reflects well on me surely?  And probably makes people think I'm a fucking sexual Tyrannosaurus in the sack. 

Nah, we know you are just a Tory loving hedgefund kid. Doesn't work for Trump either.

8 hours ago, BigFatCoward said:

Small hands make your junk look bigger. 

Like I said. 

Anyway, Horse saying, bigger junk makes your hooves look smaller.  :cool4:

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Uuurg, I am going to need to talk to him, because last night he was saying stuff like “maybe you should stay home from the Portugal trip”

WTF, I have paid for half the Portugal trip.

And then it sounds like he wants to go out on Saturday by himself?? Ummmm…or maybe with his guy friends (100% acceptable)…but that combined with his Portugal statements makes me start thinking of “I feel —— when you say ——“. 

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6 minutes ago, Chataya de Fleury said:

Uuurg, I am going to need to talk to him, because last night he was saying stuff like “maybe you should stay home from the Portugal trip”

WTF, I have paid for half the Portugal trip.

And then it sounds like he wants to go out on Saturday by himself?? Ummmm…or maybe with his guy friends (100% acceptable)…but that combined with his Portugal statements makes me start thinking of “I feel —— when you say ——“. 

Red flags.

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It's been a rough month. The details aren't important, but I've had a tough time with my mental health and reverted to my old tactics and coping mechanisms, of silence, pushing people away, shutting them out, self-destructive behaviours, etc. I had the foresight on one of my better days to tell my partner it would be a good idea to spend time apart while I worked through this. I'm seeing them for the first time in weeks tomorrow and hoping we still have a relationship... though I'll understand if she feels she can't take on seeing me that way in the future, I know it's a lot. We'll see I guess.

Edit; my anxiety ridden mind had made this feel like longer than I thought. It's been about 2 weeks

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9 hours ago, HelenaExMachina said:

It's been a rough month. The details aren't important, but I've had a tough time with my mental health and reverted to my old tactics and coping mechanisms, of silence, pushing people away, shutting them out, self-destructive behaviours, etc. I had the foresight on one of my better days to tell my partner it would be a good idea to spend time apart while I worked through this. I'm seeing them for the first time in weeks tomorrow and hoping we still have a relationship... though I'll understand if she feels she can't take on seeing me that way in the future, I know it's a lot. We'll see I guess.

Edit; my anxiety ridden mind had made this feel like longer than I thought. It's been about 2 weeks

Hang in there!  *big creepy internet hug*

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12 hours ago, HelenaExMachina said:

It's been a rough month. The details aren't important, but I've had a tough time with my mental health and reverted to my old tactics and coping mechanisms, of silence, pushing people away, shutting them out, self-destructive behaviours, etc. I had the foresight on one of my better days to tell my partner it would be a good idea to spend time apart while I worked through this. I'm seeing them for the first time in weeks tomorrow and hoping we still have a relationship... though I'll understand if she feels she can't take on seeing me that way in the future, I know it's a lot. We'll see I guess.

Edit; my anxiety ridden mind had made this feel like longer than I thought. It's been about 2 weeks

Big hugs, my dear. Anxiety is the WORST.

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14 hours ago, HelenaExMachina said:

It's been a rough month. The details aren't important, but I've had a tough time with my mental health and reverted to my old tactics and coping mechanisms, of silence, pushing people away, shutting them out, self-destructive behaviours, etc. I had the foresight on one of my better days to tell my partner it would be a good idea to spend time apart while I worked through this. I'm seeing them for the first time in weeks tomorrow and hoping we still have a relationship... though I'll understand if she feels she can't take on seeing me that way in the future, I know it's a lot. We'll see I guess.

Edit; my anxiety ridden mind had made this feel like longer than I thought. It's been about 2 weeks

Hope it all ends up ok. Only advice is to be honest, and make it clear it wasn’t any issue or discontent with your partner (assuming it wasn’t)

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3 hours ago, Larry of the Lake said:

Just an update on the Ronald and Betty situation... Everyone knows everything and everyone is fine with it.  Learned a few hard lessons in the meantime.  Communication a million times.  

Larry of the Lake -- go all the way; polycule :grouphug:

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26 minutes ago, Wade1865 said:

Larry of the Lake -- go all the way; polycule :grouphug:

Not a great understanding of polycule, but will be quoting this back at you RE: Elon Musk and Trump.

@Larry of the Lake - glad things turned out alright, and am selfishly curious about what occurred (mainly to know how advice did/did not jibe with the situation).

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13 hours ago, VigoTheCarpathian said:

Not a great understanding of polycule, but will be quoting this back at you RE: Elon Musk and Trump.

@Larry of the Lake - glad things turned out alright, and am selfishly curious about what occurred (mainly to know how advice did/did not jibe with the situation).

In other words, DETAILS!!! We want DETAILS!!!!

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To update on my situation:

Apparently, when the Doctor was a bit fucked up, he said what he said re our upcoming vacation. I think he might have taken something to help him sleep. Even if not, and he was just stressing, sometimes he just needs me to smack his ass down to reality and say “I am not that important at the office and if I am, they need to pay me EVEN MOAR”.

Also, apparently his thing about the concert was he wanted us to go with one of his friends and their girlfriends, or his brother and the brother’s girlfriend. I really like the brother’s girlfriend. She is super awesome. Sadly, it was too cold out for them. Hey, I get it, Atlanta chill is bone-chilling. 

He is on call this weekend and fortunately only had one call. Do not call your doctor on weekends, people, unless you do a telemedicine video visit and therefore pay for it. Otherwise, it is entirely possible that the doctor on call covering your doctor’s practice is getting a blow job while you describe the color of your snot, and tells you to call your doctor tomorrow at 8 am because no, he literally cannot call in something containing hydrocodone for you. In Georgia, that requires a two-factor authentication fob with a pharmacy or more commonly, a written prescription on watermarked paper, and neither of those options are happening if he doesn’t know you and your medical history extremely well.

He did call in a narcotic for a cancer patient who ran out of it yesterday with enough supply until Monday, but that’s documented, not just yellow snot and a cough.

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