mcbigski Posted June 1 Share Posted June 1 I've seen Ty posting elsewhere so it looks our devious plan to keep him from the love of his life is working. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 49 minutes ago, mcbigski said: I've seen Ty posting elsewhere so it looks our devious plan to keep him from the love of his life is working. Lol. Yeah, this one is finished before it ever really got to start. You don't want to be with someone who makes you feel like shit, especially after you just told them you were having a really bad day (and really a few bad months). On to the next one. Phylum of Alexandria and Madame deVenoge 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mcbigski Posted June 1 Share Posted June 1 Good man. Tywin et al. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMC Posted June 1 Share Posted June 1 3 hours ago, mcbigski said: I've seen Ty posting elsewhere so it looks our devious plan to keep him from the love of his life is working. Clearly this seems to be accurate, but I don't really get the correlation here. Ty could - very easily - simultaneously be posting elsewhere while still pursuing the "love of his life." See Always Sunny with Charlie and the Waitress. Madame deVenoge and mcbigski 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 (edited) 15 minutes ago, DMC said: Clearly this seems to be accurate, but I don't really get the correlation here. Ty could - very easily - simultaneously be posting elsewhere while still pursuing the "love of his life." See Always Sunny with Charlie and the Waitress. Hey man, one of the funniest things I ever saw on the interwebs is that they are actually married in real life. Edited June 1 by Tywin et al. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DMC Posted June 1 Share Posted June 1 7 minutes ago, Tywin et al. said: Hey man, one of the funniest things I ever saw on the interwebs is that they are actually married in real life. Another thing to note is on Reno 911 they had an incestuous brother-sister relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 1 Author Share Posted June 1 5 minutes ago, DMC said: Another thing to note is on Reno 911 they had an incestuous brother-sister relationship. Lol, it's the dating thread so this is germane. One of the scariest nights of my life was "watching" the movie. My GF and I were teens, after hooking up at her house I fell asleep while she snuck out to have a cig (and she needed me to let her back in, whoops). She had to bang on her brother's window which woke her mom up. Just before her mom came into her room she threw a blanket on me and blocked her way (which woke me up). The condom was still on me and the wrapper was on the floor. Somehow she was able to get her to go back to bed, but if she came in, we were both fucked and that lady might have gotten one of her guns and shot me. She always blamed me for her husband having a heart attack and dying. Talk about a weird night. Madame deVenoge 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madame deVenoge Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 I am going to say what the most annoying thing is about not having a huge rock on my finger: Men who insist upon talking to me while I’m having lunch at my favorite cantina, OBVIOUSLY reading a book. The Doctor needs to give me a rock for this if no other reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 4 Author Share Posted June 4 26 minutes ago, Madame deVenoge said: I am going to say what the most annoying thing is about not having a huge rock on my finger: Men who insist upon talking to me while I’m having lunch at my favorite cantina, OBVIOUSLY reading a book. The Doctor needs to give me a rock for this if no other reason. Just get a good piece of costume jewelry in the meantime. Madame deVenoge 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buckwheat Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 Wait ... people actually notice other people wearing rings or a specific kind of rings other people wear? Am I just weird because I don't check out people's hands all the time I meet somebody? I couldn't tell you whether most people I see every day wear rings or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madame deVenoge Posted June 4 Share Posted June 4 6 minutes ago, Buckwheat said: Wait ... people actually notice other people wearing rings or a specific kind of rings other people wear? Am I just weird because I don't check out people's hands all the time I meet somebody? I couldn't tell you whether most people I see every day wear rings or not. I am with you, Buckwheat - I do not notice that sort of thing. However, others do. Buckwheat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 4 Author Share Posted June 4 14 minutes ago, Buckwheat said: Wait ... people actually notice other people wearing rings or a specific kind of rings other people wear? Am I just weird because I don't check out people's hands all the time I meet somebody? I couldn't tell you whether most people I see every day wear rings or not. Not everyone does it, but it's not uncommon. On a number of occasions I've been flirting with a woman and noticed they're wearing a engagement/wedding ring. Some people wear rings even if they're not married, usually weird guys who think women will like it or in Chat's case, to signal buzz off, hence why I suggested going and getting a fake one. Though reading a book should be a sign enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 4 Author Share Posted June 4 Confession time. I must enjoy agony. E called me last night, drunk per usual, and it was a bizarre conversation to say the least. I guess she was mad at me for asking her out without giving a time and day despite me asking if she was free a few different times and she said no each time. What was extra fun was to learn that our mutual friend, C, had been telling E everything I had been telling her. Awesome! Especially because while I love and adore C, on dating her advice is useless. Fuck me... C and I are going to have to talk. But since this is the dating thread I'll put this out there again, would any of you date someone for a year and a half without saying "I love you" and only seeing the other person at best once a week (no job restrictions affecting anything)? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maithanet Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 The frequency of seeing each other is entirely up to the people involved, so that's fine. But if you've dated for a year and a half and you aren't both ready to say I love you, it sounds like your wasting your time. Unless this is a relationship specifically built around not being emotionally intimate or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 5 Author Share Posted June 5 29 minutes ago, Maithanet said: The frequency of seeing each other is entirely up to the people involved, so that's fine. I get that, but C wants to see him all the time and E made it sound like once a week is the best she can get. That sounds really unhealthy to me. Quote But if you've dated for a year and a half and you aren't both ready to say I love you, it sounds like your wasting your time. Unless this is a relationship specifically built around not being emotionally intimate or something. I agree. In my book 3-4 months is probably a good spot if you really feel it, but some people are quicker while others need more time. But 18 months? To be fair to C though she's had a rough dating history. A number of LTR to shitty dudes, which sucks because she is a very sweet person and tolerates a lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madame deVenoge Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 My thoughts: 1. Once or twice a week seeing someone is normal, IMO, but usually twice a week (Friday and Saturday). This is absolutely because of work schedules. That said, phone calls at least once a day when not seeing each other is an expectation when seriously involved with someone. 2. To not hear in some form or fashion that someone loves you, after a year or so of dating, is….emotionally stunted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 5 Author Share Posted June 5 11 minutes ago, Madame deVenoge said: 2. To not hear in some form or fashion that someone loves you, after a year or so of dating, is….emotionally stunted. It's made worse by the fact she refuses to say it first. I tried to encourage her to do so because she does, or at least thinks she does, but she wants to hear it from him first. And this conversation is how I was introduced to E in the first place, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madame deVenoge Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 1 minute ago, Tywin et al. said: It's made worse by the fact she refuses to say it first. I tried to encourage her to do so because she does, or at least thinks she does, but she wants to hear it from him first. And this conversation is how I was introduced to E in the first place, lol. That is, sorry, fucking immature to want to “hear it from him first”. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tywin et al. Posted June 5 Author Share Posted June 5 26 minutes ago, Madame deVenoge said: That is, sorry, fucking immature to want to “hear it from him first”. I agree. It really shouldn't matter who says it first. Especially after that much time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starkess Posted June 5 Share Posted June 5 (edited) I waited 2 years for my ex to say the big ILY. We were actually living together by the time he said it. I said it after 6 months. But it wasn't that big of a deal to me. He obviously had hang ups about saying it, and his actions were enough. We also used to have very silly good-byes where I'd say "I love you" and he'd say "I like you more" back. Lol. Once he said it once (during The Deed, I might add), he was fine saying it all the time. Still, I was relieved that my fiance was happy to say it back to me when I said it to him after about 2 (4?) months!! Edited June 5 by Starkess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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