Cantabile Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 The last thread got closed before I could reply, so I'm starting this one. Thank you so much to everyone who has offered advice and allowed me to get things off my chest; it's been very helpful to me, and I'm very appreciative for this community. If the moderators would prefer me to stop discussing this on the board then please close this thread. I'll understand completely. Nothing is wrong with writing erotica, and I understand that torture and all that is a sexual preference for some people, but that he wrote about doing such horrific things to his own mother just blows me away. Maybe I am letting my dislike of her cloud my judgment, but that doesn't seem like something a kid do unless the issue was really serious. I don't know if she's physically abusing him and the rest of the family doesn't know about it, or if the emotional control and abuse is worse than I thought... She's always made her husband and children feel like they're shit, criticizing and mocking everything about their personalities and appearances, saying that they're wastes of her time, completely worthless, and shit like that nearly every day since they've been born. But still, the type of stuff he wrote was absolutely deprived. Things like anal-raping her at a zoo, then sticking a tube up her anus, and inserting venomous snakes into it, and raping her from behind while another man forces her to give him oral sex, pinching her noise so she can't breathe and suffocates on his penis. What the hell? Where does a 12 year old even get ideas like that? That isn't normal. My grandson isn't a sick person, but what he's writing is sick. Is it healthier to just write about this shit and keep it in his head rather than act any of it out? Yes. But he shouldn't even be thinking about these types of acts. The hatred itself is unhealthy and needs treatment.Christmas break is coming up soon, so maybe the parents will let me take him for a vacation to Tahoe. We can ski and spend time together, hopefully work through some of these issues, and there won't be any internet at the cabin, so he'll have a break from all his Internet habits. Either way, though, a therapist is necessary. I'll do my best to help the family, but I'm in no way a trained professional with these types of things, and I've never dealt with something like this before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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