(Please note this thread isn't about assigning blame or trying to nail down the casus belli. It's about looking at unknowns) I'm not particularly a fan of either Rhaegar or Lyanna, but I am an advocate of not jumping to conclusions. Based on the other recent threads, it would seem some readers assume Lyanna ran off with Rhaegar willingly as a homewrecker, selfishly carrying out an illicit affair in the ToJ without a single care for the rest of Westeros, irrationally attempted no com