Could Rhaegar have maybe been in love with Arthur Dayne like Loras and Renly were. This is a hypothetical look at the mirror comparison potentially between Rhaegar to Renly and Arthur to Loras.
Think about it.
Arthur Dayne is great with his swords just like Loras Tyrell
When asked if Rhaegar loved Elia, Barristan cannot say yes.
GRRM has stated the Elia and Rhaegar's marriage was complicated
We know Rhaegar crowns Lyanna , but may not have stolen her as.
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