What really led to the Red Wedding

[Graydon Hicks]

5 hours ago, Livesundersink said:

 

THIS, it makes me feel sad for Lysa because when everything was said and done all she was in the end was a tool for others to further their own ambitions. Another point of contention between Cat and Lysa was that initially Lysa was being promised to Jaime, he recalls being sent to Riverrun and being seated next to Lysa and then ignoring her and then is outright rejected when Jaime joins the kingsguard. She is then married off to Jon Arryn simply because he needs an heir and at that time Lysa was still believed to be fertile.

maybe lysa was like a version of sansa, one that got all her dreams smashed and force to marry a far older man. the way lysa is described in her youth seems a lot like sansa at the beginning of the series.