I've read the scene in the books many times, and the suspense and tension is still as strong and haunting as ever. The thing is, with many scenes, one viewing of the TV version is enough to override the picture in my head of that scene, derived from my reading. "Dracarys" especially springs to mind, as does "stick it with the pointy end" and Bran's fall. BUT not the red wedding, and it should have. I agree