Lady Olenna Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 So you just take it lying down??? I wish I had that kinda propensity for letting things go...I tend to pay my debts. It's a real pain in the ass sometimes, let me tell ya. So you're really a Lannister? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhaegar I Targaryen Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 So you're really a Lannister? :dunce: I never thought of it that way... :frown5: I always thought I could be beautiful, noble and brave Rhaegar... But really props to you if you have the fortitude to walk away from a conflict like that, I could never do it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Olenna Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 It's taken years. And if you are in a situation that you can't just walk away from (like Wally, he can't just move out, I don't think) you have to learn how to cope. It's the only way to maintain sanity at any level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KiDisaster Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Good evening spammers. @Wally - Sorry to hear about your troubles at home, I'm glad your sister has you there with her at least. Stay safe man. :grouphug: :grouphug: for any other spammers in need. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DreamSongs Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 :grouphug: Wally :grouphug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myshkin Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 But I was not creeped out. I felt, at long last, that I belonged. To think that the Goblin King sent one of his fl00bs to me...me! I am chosen! I see that I must try harder. Myshin, you know he's not going to be satisfied until he is a character in one of your books! But he already is. Fergus is clearly based on Trisky. A Scottish boat captain who lives on Loch Ness? Are you trying to tell me that that doesn't fit Triskele to a tee? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Tyrion I Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Morning, guys.After reading back: could you please slow down the Rhaegar worship a bit? That would be really nice. Thank you.@ Wally: :grouphug:@ Bex: <hugs sis: I'm glad you're back.Have a great day, everybody. Laters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Flashheart Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Who likes that emo tool? Pfft. Rhaegar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gillio Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 God dammit, i can't stand my house anymore! My shitheel of a step dad can't go one day without bullying and hurting my little sister, just because he is a shit parent obviously means everything is not his fault. :angry2: :grouphug: for you and your lil sis. I know its not easy for you. You can PM me if you want to vent, you know. just keep building your sister up the best you can to counter it. hang in there! Good idea. If only it were that easy, but it's not. No-one said it would be easy, but you are the greater Walrus, we have faith in you. I have no idea if this will help, but I've learned a technique of "disarming" in which instead of being defensive or arguing with the bully I just find some truth in what they say and agree.Example: "you're lazy and you don't do shit"Fact: I am rarely, if ever lazy. Seriously.My response: "you're probably right, I could probably do more"It's extremely hard to adjust to but it is so effective in dealing with an abusive person. They think they've "won" and shut up and you know the truth.Just my $.02 Lady O :grouphug: I'm afraid I would sound sarcastic, however hard I tried not to, I think my first words were sarcastic, my dad is an expert!! But yes, in Wally's case, diffusing the situation sounds like a good strategy. Wally is there something that triggers the bullying in particular? Is there a way to avoid that occurring? My kids used to be very clingy when I got home from work when they were little, and all I wanted was to sit and unwind. We changed bathtime to before dinner, and I hopped in there with them in my bathers. So you're really a Lannister? oh, well played. :wub: Morning, guys.After reading back: could you please slow down the Rhaegar worship a bit? That would be really nice. Thank you.@ Wally: :grouphug:@ Bex: <hugs sis: I'm glad you're back.Have a great day, everybody. Laters. I agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Tyrion I Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Thank you, Gillio, for seconding me.My lady love sends you her regards. =o) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colder Hands Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 if i turned into a pumpkin because i was up too late, i hope no one would carve me and then eye bang me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gillio Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Thanks L_T. Is she feeling better? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Flashheart Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 if i turned into a pumpkin because i was up too late, i hope no one would carve me and then eye bang me. I would. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gillio Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 if i turned into a pumpkin because i was up too late, i hope no one would carve me and then eye bang me. You know, this is one my anxiety condition never comes up with. Now I dont know if thats good or bad, maybe my anxiety is improving, maybe I have defective anxiety that keeps missing things to worry about! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colder Hands Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Howdy L_T, Gillio and Flash. I have learned not to stay out drinking too late with Flash! I was just doing a drive by. 2am here and i gotta crash. be well thread heads, cya in another dimension Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Tyrion I Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Gillio: partly.She has her appointment today. Hopefully, we'll be able to talk today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DreamSongs Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 I'm off to bed as well. Thanks Bro. How is your Lady? :) I updated my technology today and bought a 7th generation IPod Nano. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Olenna Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 L_T - will your lady ever join our corner on the internet one day?I guzzled NyQuil earlier to help with this cold and knock me out. It's done neither. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gillio Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 Lady O, try some camomile tea, and slow down!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Tyrion I Posted February 18, 2014 Share Posted February 18, 2014 @ Lady O: :kiss: feel better!@ Bex: I hope so. I try to convince her to register. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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