Kalbear Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Mandy, this sounds exactly like the kind of thing you did not want. If it's now what you do want, well, that's cool - but if recommend rereading why you said you were forswearing fwb and booty calls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yagathai Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 That would be very unlikely. Then why is she sabotaging you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungtotte Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 She secretly loves him... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankou Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Well I don't think I'm being sabotaged. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yagathai Posted May 29, 2014 Author Share Posted May 29, 2014 Well I don't think I'm being sabotaged. The evidence you have provided points to the opposite. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted01 Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Ankou, don't lose hope just yet!Mandy, I would suggest finding out what is actually going on there, before moving forward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WillWork4NinjaPowers Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 So... I have to now admit that it is not completely clear to me whether or not the Viking is currently in a relationship or if he's simply still living with his ex. I'm not sure it matters, except that he's been texting me and asking me to see him again and at the very least he's trying to let me know that he's not available for a relationship but still wants to bone me. :P I'm considering this now.... I need a coin operated boy. I could use him as a FWB for sex purposes and still date other guys I was actually interested in, thus releiving my apparent obviious need for sex and taking that out of the "dating" scenario. Because that's not the message I'm trying to send for the dating crowd. And I can do away with the Viking when and if I find someone to date who I want to be physical with. Part of me says nooo he's using you lol And the other part says, "Well yeah, but I'm using him too, so isn't that fair?" Thoughts? Sounds like it will just lead to drama. Lots of drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theda Baratheon Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Signed up to some lame vegetarian dating sites, LOL. All the websites I've found are so old and crap, not holding my breath, hahahaha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WillWork4NinjaPowers Posted May 29, 2014 Share Posted May 29, 2014 Signed up to some lame vegetarian dating sites, LOL. All the websites I've found are so old and crap, not holding my breath, hahahaha Sign up for a vegan cooking class or 10. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theda Baratheon Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 Sign up for a vegan cooking class or 10. I'm gonna join the vegetarian society next year. :) Hope it's still there...if not, I think finding a local vegan/vegetarian cooking class is a really neat idea, cheers :) I've been looking at all sorts of classes to join recently, might join some sort of dancing class too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inigima Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 I recommend that over something like a vegetarian site. I think it's better to meet people through things you like to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theda Baratheon Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 Yeah, I get that. And these sites really are terrible, lol. Was thinking about reactivating OKC, but it makes me kinda nervous. I've recognised SO MANY PEOPLE on there, from when I was last using it, that come into where I work regularly and probably see me all tired and looking like crap. But I think an actual class to meet people would be a lot better for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alcibiades Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 The girlfriend and I will be on 6 months on Saturday the 7th. I'd like to something gallant to do for her. I could just get flowers, which are always a hit, but I'd like to come up with something more creative. We don't really have firm plans for the day yet, except to say that we'll be hanging out all day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karaddin Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 I went with making a super sappy facebook post and I think dinner out somewhere. Lots of people seemed to think the sappy facebook post was quality, but it's hardly original :P She gave me flowers, and also participated in the dinner out somewhere. ETA: Oh and cake, I'm pretty sure we had cake! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brook Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 There is always cake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alcibiades Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 I went with making a super sappy facebook post and I think dinner out somewhere. Lots of people seemed to think the sappy facebook post was quality, but it's hardly original :P Haha, she's not actually on Facebook. I suppose I could put up a sappy message and show her on my account. :) "See how I publicly display my affection?!" There is always cake Oh yeah, I should definitely hit up her favorite cupcake place. I did that on Valentine's day too, but that shit doesn't get old. She's been wanting to go on a hike through Rock Creek Park so maybe we can do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kungtotte Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 Fishing is when you send your hot friend over to a group of girls to get them to come to your table. 60% of the time it works every time. edit Well, the offending message got removed, so I guess my joke isn't necessary any more. Back to our regular programming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Warlock of Qarth Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 I'm gonna join the vegetarian society next year. :) Hope it's still there...if not, I think finding a local vegan/vegetarian cooking class is a really neat idea, cheers :) I've been looking at all sorts of classes to join recently, might join some sort of dancing class too. Signing up for a dancing class is something I can heartily recommend! I've been following salsa dance classes since november. It's a lot of fun and a great way to get to know new people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted01 Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 Cake is always welcome! If I want to do something for my boyfriend, but don't have a lot of money to spare, I'll cook him dinner and make him a cake. Which is all the time - this is why I'm so fat :laugh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlefingers In The Air Posted May 30, 2014 Share Posted May 30, 2014 The amount of "I don't date black guys." I've run into on POF is disturbing. Especially since I've seen it from black women as well as others. Oh well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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