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Crixus reacted to a post in a topic: Dating Thread: In Memoriam
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I have a friend who is an ER doctor who calls motorcycles “donor cycles.” Apparently it’s a pretty common view among ER types… The husband person is an aggressive driver now and was a VERY reckless driver as a young man (before I met him). I don’t like getting in the car with him when we are going any kind of distance. He knows it - and sometimes gets annoyed when I’m clutching the handles. With no traffic, the drive from the city to our house takes me an hour and four minutes. He does it in 52 minutes. He’s done it in 37 (not with me in the car thank goodness). My last traffic ticket was in 1997 (speed trap town - my own dang fault; it was night and I didn’t see the sign going from 55 to 35 in like 200 yards). His was … well, let’s protect the guilty shall we? Anyhow, to everyone’s point, bragging about it is NOT CUTE. It’s what the kids used to call a red flag (which, for those who don’t know is the opposite of a beige flag). It suggests a certain self-centeredness and disregard for the well being of others. I knew about all this stuff including the teenage shenanigans of the husband person and I married him anyway, but in retrospect, it’s definitely symptomatic of other behavior that drives me crazy.
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This is my second trip to London already of 2024. Since it is a work trip, I will be staying at the Corinthia (yes I know Lah di dah). There is absolutely nothing wrong with the Corinthia.
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Feel like the biggest issue will be customs given that I live in the (former) colonies… But I’ll be in London in a couple of weeks
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I’d be potentially up for outdoors. But I’m a lazy gardener… I currently have (anemic) strawberries - would like to do better. The plants are a few years old and have never really flourished where I have them so I was toying with digging them out and starting over in a different bed. I put in tomatoes every year (but only do cherry/grape types) and get a bonanza, squash (both gourds and summer squash), okra, cucumbers. I often put in shishito peppers. I like putting in melons, spring peas and beans of some variety. I have had poor luck with root crops. My big pest issues are rodents (freaking evil bunnies) and squash bugs. I have seen cut worm and cabbage worm (when I do broccoli/cauliflower/brussels sprouts). Depending on the year I have issues with aphids/powdery mildew though I have an (organic) system for that now. I have had black spot and mosaic issues (had to dig out soil and refill - ugh).
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I am out of the habit of reading spec fic right now. Need to find some good stuff. However, recent excellent reads: Hello Beautiful by Ann Napolitano. It’s schmaltzy but enjoyed it. Nothing too deep. The Wolf Age by Tore Skele (in translation). History of the Vikings in the 9th-11th centuries. Rules of Civility by Amor Towles The Hapsburgs by Martin Rady The Middle Kingdoms by Martin Rady The Winter Soldier by Daniel Mason Next up: The Djinn Waits A Hundred Years, The Young Queens, Starling House
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The Small Stuff That Doesn't Need a Thread. #7
Mlle. Zabzie replied to LongRider's topic in General Chatter
Not my area. May be classified as a “gift” rather than “income” so in the estate and gift regime rather than the income tax regime, but honestly not sure, don’t have enough facts, and not worth going to the rabbithole tonight. -
I came here thinking this would be about the NYT suit against Open ai and Microsoft. And in fact the suit alleges that the AI is just theft/generating plagarism. If you read the articles side by side to a layperson they have a point.
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Would folks be interested in a chain holiday card instead? My husband's family does this. First person buys a card and signs it with a nice message/book recommendation (sometimes people put in a paper crane or other origami in my family) and then a stamp so it can be sent on. Anyhow, it goes around the family until it goes back to my father in law and then he takes a picture and sends to everyone. It's a lot less a commitment and the cost of an envelope and stamp
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Dating Thread: Hope Springs Eternal
Mlle. Zabzie replied to Mr. Chatywin et al.'s topic in General Chatter
Absolutely no judgement, as you know, but I would be hesitant to get reinvolved here. Is it worth the potential heartache or better to focus on healing? -
Secret Santa XIII - Unlucky for some but not for us
Mlle. Zabzie replied to HexMachina's topic in Forum Games
OMG! This is so fun. Sure - I’ve been absentee for a bit and xiii seems like a good sequel for me to reappear. -
I am so sorry. Poor boo.
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Complete tangent to the thread, but I’m interested in what you qualify as “real work”. One thing I’ve learned over time is that there are things that I did not value as a younger person (I.e., small talk at work) that are actually “real work” and are super important as you start to manage people (up and down). It is an important part of my day (which I actually set aside as a calendar block) to find time to connect with different groups of people. It’s much easier to care about people that you know on a personal level and not as the person who sends you sort of mediocre drafts or horrifying assignments. But to do that, you have to invest the time. That is work, and it counts just as much as time spent thinking creatively, time spent implementing ideas, time spent in analysis, etc.